Adding adventure to your sex life with “Amsterdam Windows”

Men are by their very nature visual creatures and they like variety. A woman should remember this and appreciate the fact that a man has chosen to limit himself to her exclusively (sexually speaking). We as women need to realize this is a big deal for a man to do. We have a tendency to think it is normal and natural for a man to do this when he loves a woman.

This is not true for male nature. It is contrary to their male makeup. Good men do limit themselves, out of love, and practice monogamy. But it is not their natural state. We women need to remember this and appreciate our man’s fidelity.

One of the ways we women can show our appreciation to our man is to be sexually available and to indulge him in his need for variety by being a little sexually adventurous. You know – be a little naughty for him.

Here is sex adventure you can use to show your appreciation to your man. It also let you be a little naughty and feel sexy with out being trashy.

Ever heard of the phrase ‘Amsterdam windows’? This term refers to the red light district in Amsterdam, an area in the city of Holland where prostitution is legal. In the red light district, the women offering their services stand in front of a window displaying themselves to entice men passing by to select them and come in for pleasure.

The shower sex game Amsterdam Windows comes from this and for you to play the game, you’ll need a glass shower stall. (This make a good excuse to get a room a nice hotel.)

The Amsterdam Windows sex adventure game

This sex game is great for your relationship and has different elements in it which appeal to both his needs and your needs. First there’s the play on his need for visual display (on her part), on self-pleasuring (on both your parts) and on role-playing (on her part) so let’s get started!

For this sex game, you can choose to engage in foreplay or not. Opting for foreplay means you can easily be on your way to playing the sex game but opting for the latter has some fun too. How? If you don’t engage in foreplay, then it’s up to you to bring yourself to a level of arousal without him touching you!

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Now for the how to of this sex game…

With the bathroom dimly set, you should stand behind the shower stall and turn on the shower. You should have a sexy, white t-shirt on so your man can clearly see how your nipples get turned on and become erect by the blast of water running down your body.

As for your man, he will be sitting and watching on the OTHER side of the glass shower stall. Hello voyeurism!

You should now put on all your feminine charms and get yourself as turned on as much as possible. You can leave your t-shirt on or you can proceed to take an achingly slow shower, making sure he can see the suds slide down your body and how you touch yourself all over. If you own a waterproof vibrator be sure to include it in your sexy show. This part brings out the role-playing in you. You can pretend to be in an adult movie shower scene! If you are like me and feel a little shy or awkward doing this kind of thing, being behind the glass shower door make is easier to relax and let go and use my imagination and let myself feel sexy without feeling so self conscious.

To increase the heat factor, you can then move on to more daring moves such as pushing your body against the glass for his torment and/or… start self-pleasuring yourself using your hands and a waterproof vibrator, if you have one.

Note that on this move, you are fulfilling a sex fantasy that thousands of men dream of everyday… the fantasy of watching his woman play with herself!

At this stage, you may also want to invite your man, with hand gestures, do the same thing---to play with himself ---so you can watch. In doing so you are both fulfilling a sex fantasy that thousands of couples dream up everyday… the fantasy of watching your lover play with him or herself!

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How your sex adventure game of Amsterdam Windows ends is totally up to you. Here are some possible scenarios:

- You can stop when you both reach your climaxes separately (each remaining behind their side of the shower glass.) I have the advantage here because I can have several orgasms.

- You can join each other under the shower and proceed to making love. (A personal favorite of mine! Especially since I have had several vaginal orgasms as this point and am aching to have my man inside me!

- Or you can switch roles! This time, it’s HIS turn to put on a show while you enjoy yourself.

Remember: through the duration of this sex adventure game, there must be NO verbal communication between the two of you whatsoever. With the one sitting down getting turned on simply by what the other chooses to do from his/her side of the ‘window’.

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As if this sex adventure game is not steamy enough, here are other things you can add to change the sex game:

- Make the objective of the game to have as many orgasms as possible while your man watches on the other side of the glass.

- Add music to the equation. You can pre-mix music that alternates between soft and sexy and rough and hard. Use this music to coordinate your sexy movements.

- Add video to the equation. If you know of a really hot shower scene in a movie, get a clip of it and play it. In this scenario the objective is to ‘act out’ the scene completely.

The sex adventure game Amsterdam Windows has a lot going for it. It brings in many sex elements a woman can finally engage in without necessarily being too shy or coy about it. By simply adding the element of the steamy, glass shower door, it’s amazing how a woman can feel so ‘free’ and finally make her man and her own fantasies come to life.

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What Does Learning to Wiggle My Ears Have to Do with Becoming a Multi-Orgasmic Woman?

When I was a kid for some reason I wanted to learn how to wiggle my ears. I was probably 10 or 11 years old at the time and I thought being able to wiggle my ears would be so cool. Hey I was a kid.

I remember first trying to concentrate real hard and making my ears wiggle. If you haven’t tried this, it is a lot harder than it sounds. I remember feeling my face move and my eyebrows move but I couldn’t tell if my ears were wiggling.

I then tried using my hands to feel if my ears were moving, but that didn’t work very well. It wasn’t until I got the idea to look in a mirror while trying to wiggle my ears that I started to make progress.

I went in the bathroom and watched myself as a tried to figure out how to make my ears move. It took a lot of trial and error with me making all kinds of funny looking faces.

Finally after watching myself in the mirror and learning how to move my facial muscles I was able to isolate the correct muscles and I could make my ears wiggle just a tiny bit.

I remember the first things I had to learn was to not move all the other muscles in my face and learn to move just the ones needed to make my ears wiggle.

Learning to wiggle my ears was quite a challenge. It was one of those weird things I did as a kid. I am sure you have some of your own weird kid things so stop laughing at mine.

Anyway I was determined to learn to wiggle my ears and I would practice just about every time is was alone and in front of a mirror, such as when I would brush my teeth in the morning and at night.

After a couple of weeks of this I got really good at wiggling my ears. I no longer needed to look in the mirror to get it right. In fact I got so good I could wiggle each ear by itself, kind of like left and right turn signals on a car. I can wiggle the left ear or the right ear or both at the same time. I remember showing off to my friends. Nobody else in could do it.

I can still do it today. It is like learning to ride a bike. Once you learn how, the basic skill stays with you the rest of your life.

Okay you may be wondering what this has to do with a woman’s orgasm. Well quite a lot actually. You see learning to climax and enjoy easy orgasms is a lot like learning to wiggle your ears; at least it was for me. And from the research I’ve done it applies to all women. Let me explain.

After years of frustration and difficulty achieving orgasm, especially during sex with my husband, I decided I would do something about it. I knew how to climax, I had been doing it by myself since I was a teenager, but sometimes it would take forever to happen.

I decided this was not right or fair for that matter and I opened my mind to the possibility that a woman’s orgasms should be easy and frequent. I got tired of reading articles about other women who enjoyed multiple orgasms on a regular basis. I decided I was going to be one of those women.

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As I researched how to become more orgasmic I learned the importance of training my orgasm muscle or pubococcygeal muscle AKA the PC muscle. I learned that most women (over 90% in one study) did not know how to contract and control this muscle that is so critical for female orgasm.

Studies showed that most women when asked to squeeze their PC muscle mistakenly tighten their buttocks, thighs, legs, and abdominal muscles instead. Studies also showed the best way for a woman to learn to get in tune with her orgasm muscle and learn to flex it was through some kind of biofeedback.

What this means is she needs to see what she is doing so she can learn when she is doing it correctly. Then she can focus on that and improve her skill and control of the muscle.

This is when I had an “Ah ha!” moment and remembered how I had learned to wiggle my ears as a kid. I had used biofeedback when looking into the mirror to figure out how to move the muscles to wiggle my ears! And how not to move the other muscles in my face.

I was one of those women who would have to tighten my legs stiff as a board while working my way to an orgasm. Sometimes I would get a cramp in my leg. And the following day the muscles in my butt and the back of my legs would be stiff and sore.

In this on my back and stiff legged position you can forget trying to orgasm during intercourse. There was no way I could enjoy my husband and climax in this position.

I needed to be in this stiff legged position because that is how I first learned to reach orgasm when I was a teenager. That was the only way I knew how to get the muscle tension I needed to climax.

It wasn’t until I learned to consciously control my orgasm muscle using a pelvic muscle exerciser that gave me not only the resistance necessary to strengthen the pelvic muscles but also provided the biofeedback I needed did I learn how to climax in almost any position, orgasm during intercourse and do it multiple times.

Just like learning to wiggle my ears using biofeedback, regular practice with my pelvic muscle exerciser has made climaxing easier and multiple orgasms routine. Now I am one of those multi-orgasmic women I used to envy.

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My Marvelous Toy - the Hitachi Magic Wand

Over the holidays my son fell in love with the song “The Marvelous Toy” and has been singing it everyday. It got me thinking about my own "marvelous toy" my husband bought me after we married.

Growing up I was a little insecure about my sexuality. I guess every teenage girl is to some degree. I was fortunate in that I grew up in a religious home where sex was regarded as something sacred and something special and ment to be enjoyed by a husband and wife and not something that was dirty or to be ashamed of.

So when I discovered the joys of masturbation as a teenager I tried to keep it to a minimum, realizing it was important to know how my body worked so I could share it with my husband after I got married.

My hubby tells me he was glad I had gotten familiar with my body and knew how to orgasm when we got married and was greatful I was a virgin (we both were) and not a prude.

Even with this mindset I was still a little shy about sex after we got married. So I was thrilled when my husband bought me "my marvelous toy". You see even though I enjoyed sex and knew how to climax; it took a lot of work (back then). So to make it easier for me to climax he bought me a Hitachi Magic Wand electric vibrator. He even left me a little note encouraging me to test drive it in private so I could get comfortable using it to achieve orgasm by myself and so I could share that knowledge with him later.

The Hitachi Magic Wand is probably the best appliances we have ever purchased and is still going strong after nearly 2 decades of regular use. In fact we often give a Hitachi Magic Wand as a wedding present to young couples.

So if you don’t own a Hitachi Magic Wand now I strongly recommend you get one---the sooner the better!

Just a little note to you men, don’t feel threatened by a vibrator. The more orgasms a woman has the more she wants. Using a vibrator makes orgasm happen quicker and with less work. Don’t worry she won’t replace having sex with you for having sex with herself and the Hitachi Magic Wand. She will still want your "Magic Wand" and more often too.

And just think how much you’ll enjoy fondling her and watching her get off, ooh la la!

Another thing about having a Hitachi Magic Wand is if you forget to put it away and the kids or in-laws find it you wont be embarrassed because after all it is just a massager for sore muscles right (wink, wink).

Next time I will share some ways to Hack your Hitachi Magic Wand and make it an even more marvelous toy.

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11 Secrets About Female Orgasm, Stimulation and Penis Size Men Need to Know

Here are 11 facts all men must know about female orgasms and satisfying a woman sexually:

1. Women can experience 2 different kinds of orgasms namely clitoral (the most common and the one most women are familiar with) and vaginal (less common but can be learned and enjoyed with a little training).
   
   
2. A few women can’t orgasm at all.
   
   
3. The majority of women can only orgasm from having their clitoris stimulated manually, orally or with a vibrator.
   
   
4. Less than half of all women can have vaginal orgasms. They can learn with training and practice, but most don’t know how.
   
   
5. Since most women must have clitoral stimulation, they don’t climax during intercourse unless additional stimulation is provided to the clitoris.
   
   
6. For more than half of all women, their ability to orgasm has absolutely nothing to do with the size of a man’s penis.
   
   
7. For the women that can have vaginal orgasms, they generally have 2 kinds: the cul-de-sac orgasm or the G-spot orgasm. Most women who can have a cul-de-sac orgasm can also have G-spot orgasms. The cul-de-sac is located deeper inside up behind the cervix. While stimulation of the cul-de-sac can be pleasurable, most women do not like the feel of the cervix being touched with a probing finger or bumped with a long penis. A 5 inch penis is usually long enough to reach the cul-de-sac depending on the woman.
   
   
8. The other vaginal orgasm comes by stimulating the G-spot. It is not really a spot but more of an area located along the front wall of the vagina a couple of inches in. Depending on the woman the G-spot area can be as small as a pea or as large as silver dollar. The G-spot responds to firm pressure and gentle tapping. This can be a drawback because when the G-spot is first stimulated she my feel she has to urinate. Stimulation of the G-spot often causes fluid to build up in the Skene’s glands or female prostrate. Many women are uncomfortable with the sensation of fluid building up and are afraid the fluid they release is urine. Numerous studies have confirmed the fluid or female ejaculate is not urine but is akin to prostrate fluid found in male ejaculate. And like a man’s, her ejaculation fluids can “squirt” out from the urethra during orgasm and is completely normal.
   
   
9. A man does not need a long penis to give a woman who is capable a vaginal orgasm. In most cases a 5 inch long penis is all that is required for a G-spot or cul-de-sac orgasm.
   
   
10. Girth or thickness is NOT a significant factor in satisfying a woman. While some women enjoy the “stretched like a water balloon” feeling, most women do not. To large a girth can cause pain during sex. Men of average or small girth may be concerned if they do not feel the vagina tight around their penis and the vagina feels too loose and does not provide enough stimulation. This situation is much more effectively remedied by the women strengthening her pelvic muscles than by a man trying to add girth which may be possible but the process takes months.
    
    Whereas a woman can strengthen and tighten her “grip” in just a few weeks. The stronger the pelvic muscles the stronger the orgasms and the tighter the “grip” during sex. The ezCOME (easy Clinical Orgasm Muscle Exerciser) is an excellent way for a woman to strengthen her PC and pelvic muscles. A man would be much better off purchasing an ezCOME for a woman that wasting money on questionable male enhancement products.
    
    Women with very strong pelvic muscles can easily orgasm vaginally just by flexing their muscles, with or without a penis inside. They can also flex their muscles around an inserted penis and give a man wonderful sensations (Velvet Grip Technique) . The point is a man’s penis size is not as important as a woman’s vaginal strength when it comes to a woman’s orgasm. It is the tapping sensation on the G-spot and/or cul-de-sac that triggers a vaginal orgasm and not the stretching and filling up sensation from a large penis. Hitting the right spot in a tight and toned vagina is more important than size.
    
    
11. In real life, women generally need a minimum of 5 to 10 minutes of direct, consistent and skilled clitoral stimulation to have a clitoral orgasm. In porn the women are shown having multiple vaginal orgasms within moments of penetration. While such orgasmic abilities are possible, such women are rare, and the instant multiple orgasms portrayed in porn are exaggerated and pretended. In the real world women typically react very differently than the stylized porn queens. Also all the men in porn are huge and their size has nothing to do with the fake orgasms of their co stars. Remember they are actors. Men, don’t make the mistake of thinking your size has anything to do with your woman’s orgasms.

Men sometimes find these female orgasm facts hard to believe. Men will get much more out of sex by focusing on their sex skills and her pelvic muscle tone rather than worrying about the size of his penis.

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