9 Naughty sex tips I learned from a porn star

Anyone can give advice. And when the advice comes from someone with experience you want to pay attention.

Adult actress Ryan Keely, listed nine of her sex tips in Penthouse® magazine. Normally I don’t pay much attention to porn stars, as I find much of what they say about sex is just a bunch of over hyped nonsense and just a means of selling their product and with little value.

However, as I read Miss Keely’s sex tips I found myself relating with she was say and for the most part in agreement. She has some really good sex tips. Keep in mind she openly admits she doesn’t make love but rather; has sex. If you are a man reading this and you are with a woman who is more into romance and not so much the bad-girl type, take it slow and gauge her reactions. You want to come across as naughty; not nasty.

For the ladies reading this, it is okay to break out of your nice-girl mode. Especially behind closed doors with the one you love. It took me awhile to get in touch with my inner bad-girl and I am glad I did. Also, being a bad-girl in private does not make you a sl*t or anything like that. It just makes you a passionate lover and makes your hubby think about you more, a lot more. Trust me on this.

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If you feel awkward being naughty, time your adventure into naughtiness around your monthly cycle when you feel the most horny. Now to the porn star’s sex tips:

1. Ryan recommends having snacks on hand for the after sex “munchies”. I have to admit after a nice orgasm (or two or three or more if you are like me and have developed your orgasmic ability) I feel “starving”. My favorite after sex and orgasm snacks is fresh strawberries with whipped cream. These are not always on hand, so for me cheese and crackers work. She recommends keeping an after sex sandwich on hand and have to I agree, having something available to eat after sex is a great idea.
2. Men it is bad manners to come and be done. Ryan says when a woman is with a man she expects him to help her get off. I agree with her on this. During my self cultivation sessions I am totally responsible for my own orgasms, but when I am with my hubby I expect him to help me climax. This doesn’t mean a man has to be some kind super stud. He should enjoy his orgasm, and not hold back and not feel guilty. He should just realize it ain’t over until his lady sings (screams, moans or shouts) in orgasmic bliss. “You are not done until I come too (or three or four….)” says Ryan. I agree.
3. She advises men not to try every single foreplay move they have ever heard of on a woman they are with. Foreplay is important, but not 20 minutes important. When a woman wants sex, 5 minutes or so of foreplay is usually enough to get her juices flowing if it is done right. The important thing is to make sure she is wet and wanting. If need be, use some lubrication before thrusting into her. There have been many times when I was ready and wanting, but I wasn’t very wet. Contrary to what you may have read in erotic books and magazines, how wet a woman is, is not always an indication of how turned on she is. Men don’t be afraid to use lubrication. Ryan also recommends that men at least some of the time have the woman come first. She also advises men to remember oral sex is sex, and not foreplay. Here again I have to agree with her. Get me turned on first, and then you can add oral sex to the mix.

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4. She says men should not keep asking permission during sex. Of course sex has to be consensual, and don’t try anything you know the woman finds objective. But once things get going, stop asking. Just do it. A woman will let you know if they don’t like what you are trying. If it is something you haven’t tried before and she doesn’t object, chances are she will like it or at least appreciate the initiative.
5. Don’t try too many positions during one session of sex. Orgasmic tensions needs time to build. Constantly changing positions makes it difficult to relax and enjoy the moment and build up towards climax. It is better to spread your experimenting with new positions over several sex sessions.
6. Don’t be passive. Be a man. This does not mean a man should be a brute. But he should not make a woman feel she is forcing herself on him. She recommends men be active participants in the fun and games.
7. Part of being an active participant is making some noise, advises Ryan. Tell the woman how it feels, “even if all you can get out is grunts and expletives.” She says, “It is the least you can do.” She is quite vocal during sex and appreciates it when a man lets her know with a few dirty comments and some moans he is enjoying the sex too. I agree with her on this. I don’t particularly like a lot of expletives, but a little dirty talk at the right time fuels my inner bad girl. Men are too quiet during sex.
8. Don’t get all weird about bodily fluids. Ryan points out sex is messy, especially good sex. She advises men learn to love it because good sex is worth it. I say this goes for the ladies too. I think a lot more women would ejaculate during sex if they weren’t so concerned about making a mess and just let go.
9. Do spooning after sex. Ryan says, “Life will be easier and your sex life will be better if you’re the little spoon from time to time”. She has got that right. I like most women like to cuddle, especially after sex.

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And remember the after sex snack. I forgot to mention I also like chocolate after sex, Dove ® Dark is my favorite, and I believe it increases my desire for more sex.

G-spot Orgasm Amplification Secrets Part 2– How to Enjoy $4,500 Worth of Orgasms for Pennies

Great sex is priceless. The moments of intimacy, pleasure and gratification of sex are one of life’s treasures. However a woman does not need to spend thousands dollars for an injection of collagen into her g-spot to increase her enjoyment. She can amplify her g-spot and enhance her orgasm and sexual gratification naturally for just pennies and a little intentional effort.

In G-spot Orgasm Amplification Secrets Part 1 we looked at Cara’s situation.

Now let’s look at Kristy’s. As you will recall Kristy is an unmarried 29 year old career woman who has no children.

Just like I did with Cara I will read between the lines and fill in some details about Kristy. Keep in mind these “details” are the creation of my own imagination as I do not personally know Kristy and I do not know what her actual situation is, but I am going to make some assumptions based on my own experience, observations and insights. So here we go:

Like Cara, Kristy is comfortable with her sexuality. She is goal driven and enjoys the satisfaction of achieving her goals and desires. During “self cultivation” (masturbation) and partner sex she is having trouble achieving orgasm. This not only frustrates her, it is also having a negative impact on her relationships. She often feels disappointed after sex. Her boyfriend is exhausted and satisfied while she remains aroused and yearning for the release of orgasm.


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It doesn’t seem to matter what her partner does to get her excited, nothing works to make her orgasm. She is concerned that her sexual frustration and disappointment in bed is having a negative affect on her relationship. She finds herself getting irritated when her boyfriend wants to get close to her. She knows he wants to be intimate, but what good is it going to do for her? Her difficulty with having an orgasm gives her feelings of frustration and resentment.

She is hoping the G-Shot™ will solve her difficulty with having orgasm problem and help her achieve her goal of being an orgasmic woman and let her enjoy to same level of satisfaction from sex as her boyfriend does. For awhile she thought it might be the fault of her partner’s technique and stamina, but as her sexual experience increased over the years and with different partners she has come to the conclusion her difficulty with orgasm lies within her. Being a take charge kind of woman she has decided the G-Shot™ injection is what she needs.

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Here is why I think Kristy’s orgasm difficulties have little to do with her G-spot and why I think the G-Shot™ won’t give her the benefits she is hoping for. (Please note, the news story did not report on Kristy’s experience after receiving the G-Shot™, unlike Cara where they included information about her after G-Shot ™ sex life.)
1. Kristy is a career woman; she is in control of her life. I will bet she began taking the birth control pill when she was in college. She is responsible and would not leave contraception up to someone else. This began the death of her libido and the demise of her orgasmic ability. (You can read more about the Negative Affects of the Pill on a Woman's Libido HERE.)

2. Because Kristy is driven, I am going to assume a daily doses of caffeine, in the form of gourmet coffee (i.e. Starbucks ™) is part of her daily ritual to get her going in the morning and to keep her moving in the afternoon. These routnine daily doses of caffeine can have negative affects on important brain chemicals which further blocks her ability to have and enjoy orgasms.

3. Judging from the images in the TV news report, I believe Kristy is careful about what she eats, but her fast paced career driven life means she probably eats more packaged and fast food than she should and she keeps her figure by limiting her consumption. This type of diet further diminishes the brain chemicals she needs to fully enjoy her sexuality.

4. Kristy is 29 years old, and although she has not given birth and experienced the drastic changes to her pelvic floor muscles that are associated with childbirth, she is still subject to the natural muscle weakening that comes with age. While she is still young and vibrant, natural muscle tone begins to diminish after the age of 21. This loss of pelvic muscle tone adds to her weakened ability to respond sexually and enjoy strong and intense orgasms.

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5. Because Kristy is a sexually confident woman, she most likely owns a personal vibrator, and because she is smart it is most likely a Hitachi Magic Wand , for use during her “self cultivation” sessions. Unfortunately the use of the vibrator may be making her difficulty with orgasm worse.

As orgasm has been more and more difficult to achieve she has gone from using her vibrator on low to needing it to use it on the highest setting and even this is often not powerful enough. She finds that she has to stop during her “self cultivation” sessions because she has gone numb from the length and power of the vibration stimulation.

Even after resting for a minute and resuming stimulation she still finds orgasm difficult and sometimes is left numb, frustrated and orgasmless. The intense vibrations and her need for prolong use in order to climax has most likely desensitized her clitoris, thus making orgasm that much harder.

6. I also bet that Kristy, being the well read woman that she is, has tried kegel exercises as recommended by many books and magazine articles, only to be disappointed by the lack of results.

7. Because she believes she has tried everything possible she looks to the G-Shot™ to be her orgasmic salvation. (I wish the news story would have shared her experience with the G-Shot™, good or bad. I am betting it wasn’t as she expected and that is why they did not mention it.)

I have outlined the hypothetical reasons why Kristy is having so much trouble having orgasms. In a later blog I will make some recommendations on how she can correct her orgasm problems without spending $1,500. Come again soon…

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G-spot Orgasm Amplification Secrets Part 1– How to Enjoy $4,500 Worth of Orgasms for Pennies

Why spend thousands of dollars for great sex when you can have it for just pennies. Don’t get me wrong. I think good sex is worth thousands of dollars, especially now that I enjoy great sex almost every day, I just don’t think a sexually active woman should have to pay thousands of dollars for temporary enhancement of something that literally comes naturally and for pleasures she can enjoy for a lifetime and not for just a few months.

If you are not sure what I am referring to see Better Sex in Seconds – Shooting Up the G-spot for Great Sex.

To demonstrate what a woman needs to achieve “G-spot Amplification” and orgasm enhancement I am going to use the circumstances of the three women from Better Sex in Seconds – Shooting Up the G-spot for Great Sex and use my own introspection and creative imagination to read between lines and give some insight.

First, let’s consider 23 year old Cara Christopher who recently became a mother and got the G-shot ™ because since giving birth it has been harder for her to orgasm. From this information I am going to speculate Cara is comfortable with her sexuality and enjoyed fairly easy orgasms before giving birth. Then after having her baby things changed. I am going to reasonably assume she had a vaginal delivery. After her recovery period and she resumed sexual activity, sex did not feel as good and orgasm was harder.

This is not surprising. Birthing a child substantially stretches and strains a woman’s pelvic floor muscles. Most women lose vaginal tightness from childbirth. At 23 years of age Cara enjoyed the benefits of fairly toned pelvic muscles as a part of her youth. Because she is comfortable with her sexuality she probably masturbated regularly in addition to having sex with a partner frequently. She enjoyed satisfying orgasms and intercourse. (Remember this is purely conjecture as I do not know Cara’s actual sexual practices and behavior.)

After giving birth her vagina loss its tightness, so intercourse did not provide the stimulation it once did. Plus the experience of childbirth probably disrupted some of her genital sensory awareness and sensitivity; this combined with the loss of vaginal tightness most likely made getting the stimulation she needed to climax much more difficult.

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Now let’s take a look at what most likely happened to make the G-Shot ™ increase her level of passion and result in her having multiple orgasms hours after getting it.

First, on the day Cara received the G-Shot™ she is mentally focused on her vagina, in other words her awareness is intentionally elevated. Second, she subconsciously expects to experience an improvement in her sexual experience. This is the placebo effect at work. Third, the collagen injection produces a bump approximately an inch in diameter and extending about a ¼ inch into the vaginal canal. The collagen not only produces this lump, the injection into the G-spot region increases Cara’s awareness of her G-spot and enhances the sensations of pressure and stimulation to this erogenous zone.

Now let’s examine what happened a few hours later when she has “passionate sex” with her boyfriend that results in Cara having multiple orgasms, "It was like three...three last night," exclaimed Cara, “…it was phenomenal!”

First, Cara is mentally aroused. She is excited about trying out her $1,500 investment and mentally anticipating the benefits. Mental arousal and stimulation are key ingredients for female pleasure and sexual enjoyment, in fact in can be more important than physical arousal and stimulation in many cases.

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However in this situation, Cara also has elevated physical arousal, she feels the sensation of pressure in her G-spot region, this not only provides her sexual stimulation; it also elevates her mental awareness of her physical arousal, which elevates her mental arousal, which elevates her physical and so it goes on continuing to build up her anticipation and need for sexual release.

It is not surprising that she describes the sex with her boy friend that night as extremely passionate. By the time she begins the sexual encounter with her boyfriend she is already in a highly aroused state. Both mentally and physically. When intercourse finally does occur, not only are her genitals swollen from hours of her heightened state of arousal, her vagina is tighter because of the collagen injection, and her G-spot has been awakened and is very responsive to the stimulation provide by the thrusting penis of her boyfriend during intercourse.

I am surprised she had only three orgasms. When I get this highly aroused I lose track of the number of orgasms I have. The orgasms just keep coming until all the built up sexual energy is used up and I am completely satisfied and spent. Sometimes it’s take an hour or so and at other times it can take several hours.

Here is what women and men can learn from Cara’s experience with the G-Shot™ about being a sexually responsive woman:

1. A woman needs to be comfortable with her sexuality and needs to “cultivate” (Oprah’s Dr. Northrup’s, OBGYN, word for masturbation) her body awareness so she knows how to recieve pleasure.

2. Women can and should use intentional mental effort to focus on and increase genital awareness. (Ladies do you have genital awareness? Are you able to easily contract and relax your vagina at will? Use ezCOME for this, the results will "O"maze you.)

3. Mental arousal and anticipation are important to female sexual arousal and gratification.(Men I recommend you use Super Seduction Power to help her with this. You won't be sorry.)

4. Pelvic muscle tone is essential for a tight vagina, increasing vaginal awareness and increasing orgasmic ability.(I use the ezCOME for this.)

5. The G-spot needs to be awakened in order to be receptive to stimulation.(Using the ezCOME will help with this too.)

6. Multiple orgasms and extended sexual pleasure naturally occur in women when the previous conditions exist.(They certainlyl do! You must See this Private Video.)

When these conditions exist “G-spot Amplification” and orgasm enhancement are the natural result in sexually active women with normal sexual function.(See the Sex Benefits Video ).

Later, we’ll take a closer look at each of these conditions and how to achieve them without spending $1,000s. Come again soon…


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Multiple Female Orgasms During Sex - Oh my gosh I thought it was me in the video!

Oh my gosh, I thought this was me when I saw this video!

I would never allow my hubby to make a video like this. He knows if he did he would never see me naked again.

When I saw it, I thought "wow that girl is just like me". I mean seeing the way she gets it on, enjoys herself and climaxes multiple times was like seeing a video of me and my hubby getting in on. After watching it I had to go find him and use him, if you know what I mean.

Just to be clear, I want you to know that IT IS NOT ME in the video.

But the way she enjoys sex and comes over and over is just like me (now that is).

Just so you know the video shows a couple having sex, it is graphic but it is not gross or cheesy. It is homemade but it has good quality video.

The rumor is her boyfriend/husband/lover was so impressed with the difference in their sex after she began using ezCOME that he captured it on video and sent it in. Too bad he didn't have a before and after.

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11 Secrets About Female Orgasm, Stimulation and Penis Size Men Need to Know

Here are 11 facts all men must know about female orgasms and satisfying a woman sexually:

1. Women can experience 2 different kinds of orgasms namely clitoral (the most common and the one most women are familiar with) and vaginal (less common but can be learned and enjoyed with a little training).
   
   
2. A few women can’t orgasm at all.
   
   
3. The majority of women can only orgasm from having their clitoris stimulated manually, orally or with a vibrator.
   
   
4. Less than half of all women can have vaginal orgasms. They can learn with training and practice, but most don’t know how.
   
   
5. Since most women must have clitoral stimulation, they don’t climax during intercourse unless additional stimulation is provided to the clitoris.
   
   
6. For more than half of all women, their ability to orgasm has absolutely nothing to do with the size of a man’s penis.
   
   
7. For the women that can have vaginal orgasms, they generally have 2 kinds: the cul-de-sac orgasm or the G-spot orgasm. Most women who can have a cul-de-sac orgasm can also have G-spot orgasms. The cul-de-sac is located deeper inside up behind the cervix. While stimulation of the cul-de-sac can be pleasurable, most women do not like the feel of the cervix being touched with a probing finger or bumped with a long penis. A 5 inch penis is usually long enough to reach the cul-de-sac depending on the woman.
   
   
8. The other vaginal orgasm comes by stimulating the G-spot. It is not really a spot but more of an area located along the front wall of the vagina a couple of inches in. Depending on the woman the G-spot area can be as small as a pea or as large as silver dollar. The G-spot responds to firm pressure and gentle tapping. This can be a drawback because when the G-spot is first stimulated she my feel she has to urinate. Stimulation of the G-spot often causes fluid to build up in the Skene’s glands or female prostrate. Many women are uncomfortable with the sensation of fluid building up and are afraid the fluid they release is urine. Numerous studies have confirmed the fluid or female ejaculate is not urine but is akin to prostrate fluid found in male ejaculate. And like a man’s, her ejaculation fluids can “squirt” out from the urethra during orgasm and is completely normal.
   
   
9. A man does not need a long penis to give a woman who is capable a vaginal orgasm. In most cases a 5 inch long penis is all that is required for a G-spot or cul-de-sac orgasm.
   
   
10. Girth or thickness is NOT a significant factor in satisfying a woman. While some women enjoy the “stretched like a water balloon” feeling, most women do not. To large a girth can cause pain during sex. Men of average or small girth may be concerned if they do not feel the vagina tight around their penis and the vagina feels too loose and does not provide enough stimulation. This situation is much more effectively remedied by the women strengthening her pelvic muscles than by a man trying to add girth which may be possible but the process takes months.
    
    Whereas a woman can strengthen and tighten her “grip” in just a few weeks. The stronger the pelvic muscles the stronger the orgasms and the tighter the “grip” during sex. The ezCOME (easy Clinical Orgasm Muscle Exerciser) is an excellent way for a woman to strengthen her PC and pelvic muscles. A man would be much better off purchasing an ezCOME for a woman that wasting money on questionable male enhancement products.
    
    Women with very strong pelvic muscles can easily orgasm vaginally just by flexing their muscles, with or without a penis inside. They can also flex their muscles around an inserted penis and give a man wonderful sensations (Velvet Grip Technique) . The point is a man’s penis size is not as important as a woman’s vaginal strength when it comes to a woman’s orgasm. It is the tapping sensation on the G-spot and/or cul-de-sac that triggers a vaginal orgasm and not the stretching and filling up sensation from a large penis. Hitting the right spot in a tight and toned vagina is more important than size.
    
    
11. In real life, women generally need a minimum of 5 to 10 minutes of direct, consistent and skilled clitoral stimulation to have a clitoral orgasm. In porn the women are shown having multiple vaginal orgasms within moments of penetration. While such orgasmic abilities are possible, such women are rare, and the instant multiple orgasms portrayed in porn are exaggerated and pretended. In the real world women typically react very differently than the stylized porn queens. Also all the men in porn are huge and their size has nothing to do with the fake orgasms of their co stars. Remember they are actors. Men, don’t make the mistake of thinking your size has anything to do with your woman’s orgasms.

Men sometimes find these female orgasm facts hard to believe. Men will get much more out of sex by focusing on their sex skills and her pelvic muscle tone rather than worrying about the size of his penis.

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