9 Naughty sex tips I learned from a porn star

Anyone can give advice. And when the advice comes from someone with experience you want to pay attention.

Adult actress Ryan Keely, listed nine of her sex tips in Penthouse® magazine. Normally I don’t pay much attention to porn stars, as I find much of what they say about sex is just a bunch of over hyped nonsense and just a means of selling their product and with little value.

However, as I read Miss Keely’s sex tips I found myself relating with she was say and for the most part in agreement. She has some really good sex tips. Keep in mind she openly admits she doesn’t make love but rather; has sex. If you are a man reading this and you are with a woman who is more into romance and not so much the bad-girl type, take it slow and gauge her reactions. You want to come across as naughty; not nasty.

For the ladies reading this, it is okay to break out of your nice-girl mode. Especially behind closed doors with the one you love. It took me awhile to get in touch with my inner bad-girl and I am glad I did. Also, being a bad-girl in private does not make you a sl*t or anything like that. It just makes you a passionate lover and makes your hubby think about you more, a lot more. Trust me on this.

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If you feel awkward being naughty, time your adventure into naughtiness around your monthly cycle when you feel the most horny. Now to the porn star’s sex tips:

1. Ryan recommends having snacks on hand for the after sex “munchies”. I have to admit after a nice orgasm (or two or three or more if you are like me and have developed your orgasmic ability) I feel “starving”. My favorite after sex and orgasm snacks is fresh strawberries with whipped cream. These are not always on hand, so for me cheese and crackers work. She recommends keeping an after sex sandwich on hand and have to I agree, having something available to eat after sex is a great idea.
2. Men it is bad manners to come and be done. Ryan says when a woman is with a man she expects him to help her get off. I agree with her on this. During my self cultivation sessions I am totally responsible for my own orgasms, but when I am with my hubby I expect him to help me climax. This doesn’t mean a man has to be some kind super stud. He should enjoy his orgasm, and not hold back and not feel guilty. He should just realize it ain’t over until his lady sings (screams, moans or shouts) in orgasmic bliss. “You are not done until I come too (or three or four….)” says Ryan. I agree.
3. She advises men not to try every single foreplay move they have ever heard of on a woman they are with. Foreplay is important, but not 20 minutes important. When a woman wants sex, 5 minutes or so of foreplay is usually enough to get her juices flowing if it is done right. The important thing is to make sure she is wet and wanting. If need be, use some lubrication before thrusting into her. There have been many times when I was ready and wanting, but I wasn’t very wet. Contrary to what you may have read in erotic books and magazines, how wet a woman is, is not always an indication of how turned on she is. Men don’t be afraid to use lubrication. Ryan also recommends that men at least some of the time have the woman come first. She also advises men to remember oral sex is sex, and not foreplay. Here again I have to agree with her. Get me turned on first, and then you can add oral sex to the mix.

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4. She says men should not keep asking permission during sex. Of course sex has to be consensual, and don’t try anything you know the woman finds objective. But once things get going, stop asking. Just do it. A woman will let you know if they don’t like what you are trying. If it is something you haven’t tried before and she doesn’t object, chances are she will like it or at least appreciate the initiative.
5. Don’t try too many positions during one session of sex. Orgasmic tensions needs time to build. Constantly changing positions makes it difficult to relax and enjoy the moment and build up towards climax. It is better to spread your experimenting with new positions over several sex sessions.
6. Don’t be passive. Be a man. This does not mean a man should be a brute. But he should not make a woman feel she is forcing herself on him. She recommends men be active participants in the fun and games.
7. Part of being an active participant is making some noise, advises Ryan. Tell the woman how it feels, “even if all you can get out is grunts and expletives.” She says, “It is the least you can do.” She is quite vocal during sex and appreciates it when a man lets her know with a few dirty comments and some moans he is enjoying the sex too. I agree with her on this. I don’t particularly like a lot of expletives, but a little dirty talk at the right time fuels my inner bad girl. Men are too quiet during sex.
8. Don’t get all weird about bodily fluids. Ryan points out sex is messy, especially good sex. She advises men learn to love it because good sex is worth it. I say this goes for the ladies too. I think a lot more women would ejaculate during sex if they weren’t so concerned about making a mess and just let go.
9. Do spooning after sex. Ryan says, “Life will be easier and your sex life will be better if you’re the little spoon from time to time”. She has got that right. I like most women like to cuddle, especially after sex.

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And remember the after sex snack. I forgot to mention I also like chocolate after sex, Dove ® Dark is my favorite, and I believe it increases my desire for more sex.

Damn...!!! that's good .....All women should be that sexual...!!!

I rarely come across videos that show what can happen when a women develops her sexual skills. I am too shy to show anything myself and I know my hubby would object, so I wont do it.

But I do keep an eye out for something that will show off the kind of sex that is possible if a woman will apply herself a little.

Every once in a while I will take a look at some of the professionally done sex videos that are out there-- both porn and educational. The porn is usually way over the top (fake and over acted) and has little instructional value and the educational stuff is often too stuffy or just too fluffy.

I did stumble across an amateur video that is an excellent example of the skills of a Kabbazah (a woman trained in the art of pompoir or the use of her vagina muscles for pleasure).

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I invite you to study the video below. It demonstrates the pleasures of Kabbazah. Here is what others are saying about this amazing 3 minute video:

"Very erotic lovemaking scene. Love how he just lays back, allowing her to enjoy herself. The music adds a nice touch too." - Female age 33

"Very erotic - a real orgasm and a nice squirt... Would love to see my wife cum like that." - Male age n/a

"this is the best video I've seen so far of penile vaginal intercourse. it includes the female superior position and squirting. it's excellent." - Female age 41

"I'd say they were enjoying themselves. Beautiful. I don't think there is anything more arousing than watching a woman truly getting off."- Far Lo Male age n/a

At one time it was thought that a woman had to be born with this kind of sexual ability. However, with a little effort and the right information any woman can learn to have great sex like that shown in this homemade video.

I know this because at one time I couldn't orgasm and was very frustrated. Now I regularly have orgasms like the one you see in the video. Notice: this video is intended for adults only.





If you study the video closely you will see the woman tighten her vaginal muscles and squeeze her partner's penis as she pushes down on to it. This action creates intensely delightful sensations for both her partner and herself.

Notice too how she controls the depth of her thrusting and concentrates the grip of her vagina on the upper 2/3rds of her partner's penis. This provides maximum stimulation to her partner and to her g-spot, leading to her female ejaculation orgasm.

Also notice when she is ready to ejaculate she lets her partner's penis slip out of her vagina, women often find it easier to ejaculate and let go of the fluid without a penis inside them, when the moment arrives.

After she cums, she is ready for more and experiences tremendous pleasure, probably has a spontaneous vaginal orgasm, when she re-inserts her partner's penis into her vagina.

She then rides him to a final intense climax, most likely a blended orgasm with intense pleasure filling her whole body with ecstasy. Notice the muscle spams in her legs as she relaxes, an indication of the intensity of her orgasmic experience. I bet she has what I call "noodle legs" after this.

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As someone else commented, this is a sexual skill all women should learn, not only for their partners pleasure but for their own. I definitely agree!

At one time it was thought you had to be born with this kind of sexual skill. However, with a little effort and the right information, any woman can learn to have the kind of great sex shown in this homemade video.

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When you hear the term “hand job” you usually think of it in terms of a man’s penis. However, women enjoy a good hand job too.

The term “fingering” or “finger f@#$ing” a woman is often used but I don’t think it properly conveys the right idea of what it means to pleasure a woman by gently and carefully stroking her vulva and clitoris with the fingers and hands.

“Fingering” and “finger f@#$ing” sounds too rough and implies the need to insert a finger into the vagina. A more accurate description would be a “vulva massage”. But that sounds too clinical. It would be like calling a hand job on a man a “penis massage”. While accurate, it just doesn’t sound very sexy.

I suppose you could correctly call it a “yoni massage”, but again that doesn’t sound sexy enough and too new age. I like the raw sexiness of the term “hand job” whether referring to pleasuring man or a woman with the hand and fingers. It sounds gritty and sexy without being too vulgar, clinical or mystical.

The term “hand job” clearly conveys the idea of using the hands for giving pleasure. And just as there are many techniques for giving a man a hand job, the same is true when giving a woman a hand job.

The one thing male and female hand jobs have in common is the need for plenty of lubrication. The best way to ensure this is to use some Astroglide® or something similar. Petroleum jelly makes a very good lubricant for a great hand job on a woman (or a man for that matter). Just be aware that it will dissolve things made out of latex such as condoms.

Never ever try to stroke the clitoris with out plenty of lubrication. Plenty of lube not only increases pleasure, it will decrease the likelihood of irritating the sensitive clitoral tissue.

Here are some easy and satisfying techniques to use…



Circling the Clitoris – use the tips or pads of the fingers to make big circles around the clitoris. Avoid direct contact with the clitoris at first. Gradually make the circles smaller and smaller until just the tip of the clitoris is being circled. Lots of lube and a light touch are important when directly stimulating the clitoris.

Drumming and Stroking the Labia – Lightly tapping along the length of the labia gives good vibrations. Change to lightly stroking the length of the labia then go back to tapping.

Stiring It Up – Insert 2 fingers (usually the middle and index fingers) and gently stir. The idea is to gently wake up the entire vaginal wall, including the g-spot and a-spot. Deeper and more vigorous stimulation of these can be added later as arousal levels increase and the desire for more vigorous stimulation .

Wag the Tip – Move one or two fingers rapidly from side to side across the tip of the clitoris. If this is too intense move the surrounding tissue and clitoral hood instead.

Experiment to find the combination of moves that work best and if in doubt ask. And remember speed is often not as important as consistency for most women.


For more details and instructions for getting and giving “good hand” check out: The Zen of Giving a Woman a Hot Hand Job – How to Finger a Woman and Have Her Coming Back for More.