9 Naughty sex tips I learned from a porn star

Anyone can give advice. And when the advice comes from someone with experience you want to pay attention.

Adult actress Ryan Keely, listed nine of her sex tips in Penthouse® magazine. Normally I don’t pay much attention to porn stars, as I find much of what they say about sex is just a bunch of over hyped nonsense and just a means of selling their product and with little value.

However, as I read Miss Keely’s sex tips I found myself relating with she was say and for the most part in agreement. She has some really good sex tips. Keep in mind she openly admits she doesn’t make love but rather; has sex. If you are a man reading this and you are with a woman who is more into romance and not so much the bad-girl type, take it slow and gauge her reactions. You want to come across as naughty; not nasty.

For the ladies reading this, it is okay to break out of your nice-girl mode. Especially behind closed doors with the one you love. It took me awhile to get in touch with my inner bad-girl and I am glad I did. Also, being a bad-girl in private does not make you a sl*t or anything like that. It just makes you a passionate lover and makes your hubby think about you more, a lot more. Trust me on this.

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If you feel awkward being naughty, time your adventure into naughtiness around your monthly cycle when you feel the most horny. Now to the porn star’s sex tips:

1. Ryan recommends having snacks on hand for the after sex “munchies”. I have to admit after a nice orgasm (or two or three or more if you are like me and have developed your orgasmic ability) I feel “starving”. My favorite after sex and orgasm snacks is fresh strawberries with whipped cream. These are not always on hand, so for me cheese and crackers work. She recommends keeping an after sex sandwich on hand and have to I agree, having something available to eat after sex is a great idea.
2. Men it is bad manners to come and be done. Ryan says when a woman is with a man she expects him to help her get off. I agree with her on this. During my self cultivation sessions I am totally responsible for my own orgasms, but when I am with my hubby I expect him to help me climax. This doesn’t mean a man has to be some kind super stud. He should enjoy his orgasm, and not hold back and not feel guilty. He should just realize it ain’t over until his lady sings (screams, moans or shouts) in orgasmic bliss. “You are not done until I come too (or three or four….)” says Ryan. I agree.
3. She advises men not to try every single foreplay move they have ever heard of on a woman they are with. Foreplay is important, but not 20 minutes important. When a woman wants sex, 5 minutes or so of foreplay is usually enough to get her juices flowing if it is done right. The important thing is to make sure she is wet and wanting. If need be, use some lubrication before thrusting into her. There have been many times when I was ready and wanting, but I wasn’t very wet. Contrary to what you may have read in erotic books and magazines, how wet a woman is, is not always an indication of how turned on she is. Men don’t be afraid to use lubrication. Ryan also recommends that men at least some of the time have the woman come first. She also advises men to remember oral sex is sex, and not foreplay. Here again I have to agree with her. Get me turned on first, and then you can add oral sex to the mix.

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4. She says men should not keep asking permission during sex. Of course sex has to be consensual, and don’t try anything you know the woman finds objective. But once things get going, stop asking. Just do it. A woman will let you know if they don’t like what you are trying. If it is something you haven’t tried before and she doesn’t object, chances are she will like it or at least appreciate the initiative.
5. Don’t try too many positions during one session of sex. Orgasmic tensions needs time to build. Constantly changing positions makes it difficult to relax and enjoy the moment and build up towards climax. It is better to spread your experimenting with new positions over several sex sessions.
6. Don’t be passive. Be a man. This does not mean a man should be a brute. But he should not make a woman feel she is forcing herself on him. She recommends men be active participants in the fun and games.
7. Part of being an active participant is making some noise, advises Ryan. Tell the woman how it feels, “even if all you can get out is grunts and expletives.” She says, “It is the least you can do.” She is quite vocal during sex and appreciates it when a man lets her know with a few dirty comments and some moans he is enjoying the sex too. I agree with her on this. I don’t particularly like a lot of expletives, but a little dirty talk at the right time fuels my inner bad girl. Men are too quiet during sex.
8. Don’t get all weird about bodily fluids. Ryan points out sex is messy, especially good sex. She advises men learn to love it because good sex is worth it. I say this goes for the ladies too. I think a lot more women would ejaculate during sex if they weren’t so concerned about making a mess and just let go.
9. Do spooning after sex. Ryan says, “Life will be easier and your sex life will be better if you’re the little spoon from time to time”. She has got that right. I like most women like to cuddle, especially after sex.

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And remember the after sex snack. I forgot to mention I also like chocolate after sex, Dove ® Dark is my favorite, and I believe it increases my desire for more sex.

Adding adventure to your sex life with “Amsterdam Windows”

Men are by their very nature visual creatures and they like variety. A woman should remember this and appreciate the fact that a man has chosen to limit himself to her exclusively (sexually speaking). We as women need to realize this is a big deal for a man to do. We have a tendency to think it is normal and natural for a man to do this when he loves a woman.

This is not true for male nature. It is contrary to their male makeup. Good men do limit themselves, out of love, and practice monogamy. But it is not their natural state. We women need to remember this and appreciate our man’s fidelity.

One of the ways we women can show our appreciation to our man is to be sexually available and to indulge him in his need for variety by being a little sexually adventurous. You know – be a little naughty for him.

Here is sex adventure you can use to show your appreciation to your man. It also let you be a little naughty and feel sexy with out being trashy.

Ever heard of the phrase ‘Amsterdam windows’? This term refers to the red light district in Amsterdam, an area in the city of Holland where prostitution is legal. In the red light district, the women offering their services stand in front of a window displaying themselves to entice men passing by to select them and come in for pleasure.

The shower sex game Amsterdam Windows comes from this and for you to play the game, you’ll need a glass shower stall. (This make a good excuse to get a room a nice hotel.)

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This sex game is great for your relationship and has different elements in it which appeal to both his needs and your needs. First there’s the play on his need for visual display (on her part), on self-pleasuring (on both your parts) and on role-playing (on her part) so let’s get started!

For this sex game, you can choose to engage in foreplay or not. Opting for foreplay means you can easily be on your way to playing the sex game but opting for the latter has some fun too. How? If you don’t engage in foreplay, then it’s up to you to bring yourself to a level of arousal without him touching you!

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Now for the how to of this sex game…

With the bathroom dimly set, you should stand behind the shower stall and turn on the shower. You should have a sexy, white t-shirt on so your man can clearly see how your nipples get turned on and become erect by the blast of water running down your body.

As for your man, he will be sitting and watching on the OTHER side of the glass shower stall. Hello voyeurism!

You should now put on all your feminine charms and get yourself as turned on as much as possible. You can leave your t-shirt on or you can proceed to take an achingly slow shower, making sure he can see the suds slide down your body and how you touch yourself all over. If you own a waterproof vibrator be sure to include it in your sexy show. This part brings out the role-playing in you. You can pretend to be in an adult movie shower scene! If you are like me and feel a little shy or awkward doing this kind of thing, being behind the glass shower door make is easier to relax and let go and use my imagination and let myself feel sexy without feeling so self conscious.

To increase the heat factor, you can then move on to more daring moves such as pushing your body against the glass for his torment and/or… start self-pleasuring yourself using your hands and a waterproof vibrator, if you have one.

Note that on this move, you are fulfilling a sex fantasy that thousands of men dream of everyday… the fantasy of watching his woman play with herself!

At this stage, you may also want to invite your man, with hand gestures, do the same thing---to play with himself ---so you can watch. In doing so you are both fulfilling a sex fantasy that thousands of couples dream up everyday… the fantasy of watching your lover play with him or herself!

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How your sex adventure game of Amsterdam Windows ends is totally up to you. Here are some possible scenarios:

- You can stop when you both reach your climaxes separately (each remaining behind their side of the shower glass.) I have the advantage here because I can have several orgasms.

- You can join each other under the shower and proceed to making love. (A personal favorite of mine! Especially since I have had several vaginal orgasms as this point and am aching to have my man inside me!

- Or you can switch roles! This time, it’s HIS turn to put on a show while you enjoy yourself.

Remember: through the duration of this sex adventure game, there must be NO verbal communication between the two of you whatsoever. With the one sitting down getting turned on simply by what the other chooses to do from his/her side of the ‘window’.

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As if this sex adventure game is not steamy enough, here are other things you can add to change the sex game:

- Make the objective of the game to have as many orgasms as possible while your man watches on the other side of the glass.

- Add music to the equation. You can pre-mix music that alternates between soft and sexy and rough and hard. Use this music to coordinate your sexy movements.

- Add video to the equation. If you know of a really hot shower scene in a movie, get a clip of it and play it. In this scenario the objective is to ‘act out’ the scene completely.

The sex adventure game Amsterdam Windows has a lot going for it. It brings in many sex elements a woman can finally engage in without necessarily being too shy or coy about it. By simply adding the element of the steamy, glass shower door, it’s amazing how a woman can feel so ‘free’ and finally make her man and her own fantasies come to life.

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Sun, Sex & Sunburn - Feeling Sexy and Getting Horny with a Little Help from the Sun

My hubby loves my “lily white” skin. He tells me this all the time. I, however, am not so fond of being lily white and each spring look forward to getting some color by lying out in the sun and tanning. The problem is I don’ really tan, I pink instead. But I like the added color and I like having tan lines. Seeing them in the mirror makes me feel sexy and confident. For me it’s like wearing lingerie, it makes me feel more feminine, alluring and desirable.

The problem is I have over cooked myself on more than one occasion and instead of getting a little pink; I have ended up more of a lobster red. This of course means no sex for awhile because contact and movement are too painful for any kind of intimate activity. I think this is the real reason my hubby says he likes my lily white skin. No sunburn means no interruption in sex. And neither one of us wants wants that.

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Also, he has noticed on days I sunbath without getting burned, I am hornier than usual and anxious to get him alone for some very hot action. I am not sure if my increased horniness is from the increase in testosterone my body produces from lying in the sun, or if it is the feel of the sun’s rays warming my bikini bottom and my vulva.

Probably a little bit of both.

Add to that my sense of increased sexiness from having tan lines and it is no wonder I turn into a wild woman in bed on these days (it is usually still day light out when I jump his bones because I can’t wait until evening).

The poor guy is conflicted. Does he want to me sunbath because it usually means some very hot action in bed or does he not want me to sunbath because a sunburn means no action at all for several days and me in a lot of pain.

He knows I get annoyed when he keeps an eye on the time I spend in the sun and alerts me when he thinks I should end my sun tanning (pinking) session to keep me from getting sunburned. I know he has good intentions but it still annoys me.

I think that is how he discovered astaxanthin. He was looking for something to keep me from getting sunburned when I sunbath. And I have to say this astaxanthin stuff really works.

Normally I can only be out in the sun for 30 to 45 minutes. Much more than that and I will get sunburned. But since I have been using astaxanthin, I don’t get sunburned when I sunbath even if when I stay in the sun longer than I should. I take 16mg per day. Now I just get some color and tan lines, just like I like it. Remember I have very fair skin.

What really convinced me of how great astaxanthin is for preventing sunburn happened a few weeks after I started using it. Since I was no longer getting sunburned, my hubby had quit keeping a close eye on the time I was out in the sun. One day while sunning my buns I fell asleep.

And I snoozed for an hour and a half in the middle of the day when the sun is the strongest! I thought for sure I was going to be badly sunburned and in terrible pain for at least the next week. As it turned out I was just slightly sunburned and that was gone by the next day. If you have fair skin, you know this just does not happen.

If you like what sunning your buns does for your love life like I do and want to enjoy the health benefits of vitamin D from the sun while preventing the damaging effects to your skin you have to get some astaxanthin.

Here is the link to the article about astaxanthin my hubby found: http://www.naturalnews.com/023177.html

Sun your buns safely and have some fun. I hope you come again soon...

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