Showing posts with label female masturbation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label female masturbation. Show all posts

Friday, March 27, 2009

G-spot Orgasm Amplification Secrets Part 2– How to Enjoy $4,500 Worth of Orgasms for Pennies



Great sex is priceless. The moments of intimacy, pleasure and gratification of sex are one of life’s treasures. However a woman does not need to spend thousands dollars for an injection of collagen into her g-spot to increase her enjoyment. She can amplify her g-spot and enhance her orgasm and sexual gratification naturally for just pennies and a little intentional effort.

In G-spot Orgasm Amplification Secrets Part 1 we looked at Cara’s situation.

Now let’s look at Kristy’s. As you will recall Kristy is an unmarried 29 year old career woman who has no children.

Just like I did with Cara I will read between the lines and fill in some details about Kristy. Keep in mind these “details” are the creation of my own imagination as I do not personally know Kristy and I do not know what her actual situation is, but I am going to make some assumptions based on my own experience, observations and insights. So here we go:

Like Cara, Kristy is comfortable with her sexuality. She is goal driven and enjoys the satisfaction of achieving her goals and desires. During “self cultivation” (masturbation) and partner sex she is having trouble achieving orgasm. This not only frustrates her, it is also having a negative impact on her relationships. She often feels disappointed after sex. Her boyfriend is exhausted and satisfied while she remains aroused and yearning for the release of orgasm.

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It doesn’t seem to matter what her partner does to get her excited, nothing works to make her orgasm. She is concerned that her sexual frustration and disappointment in bed is having a negative affect on her relationship. She finds herself getting irritated when her boyfriend wants to get close to her. She knows he wants to be intimate, but what good is it going to do for her? Her difficulty with having an orgasm gives her feelings of frustration and resentment.

She is hoping the G-Shot™ will solve her difficulty with having orgasm problem and help her achieve her goal of being an orgasmic woman and let her enjoy to same level of satisfaction from sex as her boyfriend does. For awhile she thought it might be the fault of her partner’s technique and stamina, but as her sexual experience increased over the years and with different partners she has come to the conclusion her difficulty with orgasm lies within her. Being a take charge kind of woman she has decided the G-Shot™ injection is what she needs.

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Here is why I think Kristy’s orgasm difficulties have little to do with her G-spot and why I think the G-Shot™ won’t give her the benefits she is hoping for. (Please note, the news story did not report on Kristy’s experience after receiving the G-Shot™, unlike Cara where they included information about her after G-Shot ™ sex life.)
1. Kristy is a career woman; she is in control of her life. I will bet she began taking the birth control pill when she was in college. She is responsible and would not leave contraception up to someone else. This began the death of her libido and the demise of her orgasmic ability. (You can read more about the Negative Affects of the Pill on a Woman's Libido HERE.)

2. Because Kristy is driven, I am going to assume a daily doses of caffeine, in the form of gourmet coffee (i.e. Starbucks ™) is part of her daily ritual to get her going in the morning and to keep her moving in the afternoon. These routnine daily doses of caffeine can have negative affects on important brain chemicals which further blocks her ability to have and enjoy orgasms.

3. Judging from the images in the TV news report, I believe Kristy is careful about what she eats, but her fast paced career driven life means she probably eats more packaged and fast food than she should and she keeps her figure by limiting her consumption. This type of diet further diminishes the brain chemicals she needs to fully enjoy her sexuality.

4. Kristy is 29 years old, and although she has not given birth and experienced the drastic changes to her pelvic floor muscles that are associated with childbirth, she is still subject to the natural muscle weakening that comes with age. While she is still young and vibrant, natural muscle tone begins to diminish after the age of 21. This loss of pelvic muscle tone adds to her weakened ability to respond sexually and enjoy strong and intense orgasms.

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5. Because Kristy is a sexually confident woman, she most likely owns a personal vibrator, and because she is smart it is most likely a Hitachi Magic Wand , for use during her “self cultivation” sessions. Unfortunately the use of the vibrator may be making her difficulty with orgasm worse.

As orgasm has been more and more difficult to achieve she has gone from using her vibrator on low to needing it to use it on the highest setting and even this is often not powerful enough. She finds that she has to stop during her “self cultivation” sessions because she has gone numb from the length and power of the vibration stimulation.

Even after resting for a minute and resuming stimulation she still finds orgasm difficult and sometimes is left numb, frustrated and orgasmless. The intense vibrations and her need for prolong use in order to climax has most likely desensitized her clitoris, thus making orgasm that much harder.

6. I also bet that Kristy, being the well read woman that she is, has tried kegel exercises as recommended by many books and magazine articles, only to be disappointed by the lack of results.

7. Because she believes she has tried everything possible she looks to the G-Shot™ to be her orgasmic salvation. (I wish the news story would have shared her experience with the G-Shot™, good or bad. I am betting it wasn’t as she expected and that is why they did not mention it.)

I have outlined the hypothetical reasons why Kristy is having so much trouble having orgasms. In a later blog I will make some recommendations on how she can correct her orgasm problems without spending $1,500. Come again soon…


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Friday, March 20, 2009

G-spot Orgasm Amplification Secrets Part 1– How to Enjoy $4,500 Worth of Orgasms for Pennies

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Why spend thousands of dollars for great sex when you can have it for just pennies. Don’t get me wrong. I think good sex is worth thousands of dollars, especially now that I enjoy great sex almost every day, I just don’t think a sexually active woman should have to pay thousands of dollars for temporary enhancement of something that literally comes naturally and for pleasures she can enjoy for a lifetime and not for just a few months.

If you are not sure what I am referring to see Better Sex in Seconds – Shooting Up the G-spot for Great Sex.

To demonstrate what a woman needs to achieve “G-spot Amplification” and orgasm enhancement I am going to use the circumstances of the three women from Better Sex in Seconds – Shooting Up the G-spot for Great Sex and use my own introspection and creative imagination to read between lines and give some insight.

First, let’s consider 23 year old Cara Christopher who recently became a mother and got the G-shot ™ because since giving birth it has been harder for her to orgasm. From this information I am going to speculate Cara is comfortable with her sexuality and enjoyed fairly easy orgasms before giving birth. Then after having her baby things changed. I am going to reasonably assume she had a vaginal delivery. After her recovery period and she resumed sexual activity, sex did not feel as good and orgasm was harder.

This is not surprising. Birthing a child substantially stretches and strains a woman’s pelvic floor muscles. Most women lose vaginal tightness from childbirth. At 23 years of age Cara enjoyed the benefits of fairly toned pelvic muscles as a part of her youth. Because she is comfortable with her sexuality she probably masturbated regularly in addition to having sex with a partner frequently. She enjoyed satisfying orgasms and intercourse. (Remember this is purely conjecture as I do not know Cara’s actual sexual practices and behavior.)

After giving birth her vagina loss its tightness, so intercourse did not provide the stimulation it once did. Plus the experience of childbirth probably disrupted some of her genital sensory awareness and sensitivity; this combined with the loss of vaginal tightness most likely made getting the stimulation she needed to climax much more difficult.

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Now let’s take a look at what most likely happened to make the G-Shot ™ increase her level of passion and result in her having multiple orgasms hours after getting it.

First, on the day Cara received the G-Shot™ she is mentally focused on her vagina, in other words her awareness is intentionally elevated. Second, she subconsciously expects to experience an improvement in her sexual experience. This is the placebo effect at work. Third, the collagen injection produces a bump approximately an inch in diameter and extending about a ¼ inch into the vaginal canal. The collagen not only produces this lump, the injection into the G-spot region increases Cara’s awareness of her G-spot and enhances the sensations of pressure and stimulation to this erogenous zone.

Now let’s examine what happened a few hours later when she has “passionate sex” with her boyfriend that results in Cara having multiple orgasms, "It was like three...three last night," exclaimed Cara, “…it was phenomenal!”

First, Cara is mentally aroused. She is excited about trying out her $1,500 investment and mentally anticipating the benefits. Mental arousal and stimulation are key ingredients for female pleasure and sexual enjoyment, in fact in can be more important than physical arousal and stimulation in many cases.
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However in this situation, Cara also has elevated physical arousal, she feels the sensation of pressure in her G-spot region, this not only provides her sexual stimulation; it also elevates her mental awareness of her physical arousal, which elevates her mental arousal, which elevates her physical and so it goes on continuing to build up her anticipation and need for sexual release.

It is not surprising that she describes the sex with her boy friend that night as extremely passionate. By the time she begins the sexual encounter with her boyfriend she is already in a highly aroused state. Both mentally and physically. When intercourse finally does occur, not only are her genitals swollen from hours of her heightened state of arousal, her vagina is tighter because of the collagen injection, and her G-spot has been awakened and is very responsive to the stimulation provide by the thrusting penis of her boyfriend during intercourse.

I am surprised she had only three orgasms. When I get this highly aroused I lose track of the number of orgasms I have. The orgasms just keep coming until all the built up sexual energy is used up and I am completely satisfied and spent. Sometimes it’s take an hour or so and at other times it can take several hours.

Here is what women and men can learn from Cara’s experience with the G-Shot™ about being a sexually responsive woman:

1. A woman needs to be comfortable with her sexuality and needs to “cultivate” (Oprah’s Dr. Northrup’s, OBGYN, word for masturbation) her body awareness so she knows how to recieve pleasure.

2. Women can and should use intentional mental effort to focus on and increase genital awareness. (Ladies do you have genital awareness? Are you able to easily contract and relax your vagina at will? Use ezCOME for this, the results will "O"maze you.)

3. Mental arousal and anticipation are important to female sexual arousal and gratification.(Men I recommend you use Super Seduction Power to help her with this. You won't be sorry.)

4. Pelvic muscle tone is essential for a tight vagina, increasing vaginal awareness and increasing orgasmic ability.(I use the ezCOME for this.)

5. The G-spot needs to be awakened in order to be receptive to stimulation.(Using the ezCOME will help with this too.)

6. Multiple orgasms and extended sexual pleasure naturally occur in women when the previous conditions exist.(They certainlyl do! You must See this Private Video.)

When these conditions exist “G-spot Amplification” and orgasm enhancement are the natural result in sexually active women with normal sexual function.(See the Sex Benefits Video ).

Later, we’ll take a closer look at each of these conditions and how to achieve them without spending $1,000s. Come again soon…

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Sunday, January 18, 2009

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Tuesday, December 30, 2008

My “Marvelous Toy” Hacks for the Hitachi Magic Wand - Make the Best Even Better!


There are a lot of fancy and expensive vibrators/sex toys available for women but a girl can’t get anything as simple to use and more reliable than the Hitachi Magic Wand.

The Hitachi Magic Wand has several things going for it:

First, it doesn’t look like a sex toy! It just looks like a massager, and it is probably the best sex toy ever made at such an affordable price.

Second, it is simple to operate with two speeds to choose from: Low or High and its length and design make it easy to put it where you need it.

Third it is effective. It gives really good vibrations with out a lot of noise and since it is corded it never runs out of power.

Fourth, it is well made and reliable. I have used mine regularly for nearly two decades. The only thing we have had to replace is the cord, more on that in a minute.

Fifth, it can also be uses as a massager. In case you need to work out the kinks in your neck or back muscles before or after you get kinky.

Now onto ways to “Hack” your Hitachi Magic Wand.

The Hitachi Magic Wand comes with a standard 6 foot electric cord. With regular use the cord gets weakened where it enters the handle and will short out and cause it to stop working.

I learned this the hard way. Let me tell you how very frustrating it is to be right on the edge of a massive clitoral orgasm, to have the tension built up and know with just a few more seconds of vibration you are going to experience an incredible toe curling, scream into the pillow so you don’t wake the kids climax; and when you are almost there…oh yes, yes, Ye.. (“Snap”, “pop” and then silence), oh no, NOOOooo……and your vibrator shorts out and quits working. Very, very frustration let me tell you. I laugh about it now.

This happened a couple of times over the years with my hubby having to replace the power cord. Then he came up with the perfect solution: he replaced the 6 foot cord with the 25 ft long cord from an old vacuum cleaner. Not only is the cord sturdier and not prone to weakening at the handle and shorting out, it doesn’t easily tangle. Plus the added length makes it easy to take the vibrator along when you have sex in different locations in your bedroom without having to worry about finding an outlet nearby. The same goes for when you travel and stay in a hotel. The extra long cord is very convenient.

My first Hitachi Magic Wand Hack is to replace the standard issue cord with a long vacuum cleaner cord.

The second Hack has to do with the speed and intensity of the vibrations. Since the vibrator only has two speeds some women may find it both too fast and too powerful for their needs. I have found a corded plug-in lamp dimmer slide switch can be used to adjust the speed. The disadvantage to this is the cord on the dimmer switch is 6 foot long, so its functionality may be limited by the length of the cord.



Another way to vary the intensity of the vibration is to put a clean sock over the vibrating head of the Hitachi Magic Wand. This is a lot more convenient than using the dimmer switch. Plus you don’t risk damaging your marvelous toy by using the dimmer switch to vary the power. My hubby says it won’t cause any damage, but the manufacturer may disagree. Besides the sock method is a lot cheaper and you aren’t limited by the power cord’s length.

Here is a video demonstrating the sock method. Be advised it is adult in nature and rather humorous too at the end:

Sock it to Me video

You can also use a towel to dampen the vibrations or buy special covering for the head, but the clean sock is works just as well and is a whole lot cheaper and you just toss it in the laundry when you are done. I keep a stash of clean socks in the drawer next to the bed just for this purpose.


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I should mention that any modifications (such as replacing the cord) done to your Hitachi Magic Wand will void its warranty. But my hubby says they are well made and anyone that is handy with a soldering iron and knows basic wiring can replace the cord without any problems. I suspect than many owners that think their marvelous toys has burned out after a few years probably just need to replace the cord. Besides if your Hitachi Magic Wand is more than a couple of years old it is out of the warranty period anyway.

The final Hack is useful for many items not just the Hitachi Magic wand. You’ll need a bedside organizer or caddy and a small electric heat pad. Carefully fold the heat pad and tuck it into the large compartment of the bedside caddy. Then place the Hitachi Magic Wand inside the folded heat pad. Set the heat pad to the lowest setting an hour or so before you’ll be using your “marvelous toy” to make it nice and warm for when you cozy it up to your tender parts. Make sure it is not too warm.

Build Your Own Bedside Warming Caddy

The other pockets are great for storing your personal lubes or other sex accessories. You can also put your lube in with the heat pad to warm it up too. Do loosen the cap and keep it upright so it won’t swell or leak as it expands from being warmed and test the temperature of the lube on your wrist before using to make sure it is not too hot.

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Monday, December 29, 2008

My Marvelous Toy - the Hitachi Magic Wand



Over the holidays my son fell in love with the song “The Marvelous Toy” and has been singing it everyday. It got me thinking about my own "marvelous toy" my husband bought me after we married.

Growing up I was a little insecure about my sexuality. I guess every teenage girl is to some degree. I was fortunate in that I grew up in a religious home where sex was regarded as something sacred and something special and ment to be enjoyed by a husband and wife and not something that was dirty or to be ashamed of.

So when I discovered the joys of masturbation as a teenager I tried to keep it to a minimum, realizing it was important to know how my body worked so I could share it with my husband after I got married.

My hubby tells me he was glad I had gotten familiar with my body and knew how to orgasm when we got married and was greatful I was a virgin (we both were) and not a prude.

Even with this mindset I was still a little shy about sex after we got married. So I was thrilled when my husband bought me "my marvelous toy". You see even though I enjoyed sex and knew how to climax; it took a lot of work (back then). So to make it easier for me to climax he bought me a Hitachi Magic Wand electric vibrator. He even left me a little note encouraging me to test drive it in private so I could get comfortable using it to achieve orgasm by myself and so I could share that knowledge with him later.

The Hitachi Magic Wand is probably the best appliances we have ever purchased and is still going strong after nearly 2 decades of regular use. In fact we often give a Hitachi Magic Wand as a wedding present to young couples.

So if you don’t own a Hitachi Magic Wand now I strongly recommend you get one---the sooner the better!

Just a little note to you men, don’t feel threatened by a vibrator. The more orgasms a woman has the more she wants. Using a vibrator makes orgasm happen quicker and with less work. Don’t worry she won’t replace having sex with you for having sex with herself and the Hitachi Magic Wand. She will still want your "Magic Wand" and more often too.

And just think how much you’ll enjoy fondling her and watching her get off, ooh la la!

Another thing about having a Hitachi Magic Wand is if you forget to put it away and the kids or in-laws find it you wont be embarrassed because after all it is just a massager for sore muscles right (wink, wink).

Next time I will share some ways to Hack your Hitachi Magic Wand and make it an even more marvelous toy.

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