What Does Learning to Wiggle My Ears Have to Do with Becoming a Multi-Orgasmic Woman?

When I was a kid for some reason I wanted to learn how to wiggle my ears. I was probably 10 or 11 years old at the time and I thought being able to wiggle my ears would be so cool. Hey I was a kid.

I remember first trying to concentrate real hard and making my ears wiggle. If you haven’t tried this, it is a lot harder than it sounds. I remember feeling my face move and my eyebrows move but I couldn’t tell if my ears were wiggling.

I then tried using my hands to feel if my ears were moving, but that didn’t work very well. It wasn’t until I got the idea to look in a mirror while trying to wiggle my ears that I started to make progress.

I went in the bathroom and watched myself as a tried to figure out how to make my ears move. It took a lot of trial and error with me making all kinds of funny looking faces.

Finally after watching myself in the mirror and learning how to move my facial muscles I was able to isolate the correct muscles and I could make my ears wiggle just a tiny bit.

I remember the first things I had to learn was to not move all the other muscles in my face and learn to move just the ones needed to make my ears wiggle.

Learning to wiggle my ears was quite a challenge. It was one of those weird things I did as a kid. I am sure you have some of your own weird kid things so stop laughing at mine.

Anyway I was determined to learn to wiggle my ears and I would practice just about every time is was alone and in front of a mirror, such as when I would brush my teeth in the morning and at night.

After a couple of weeks of this I got really good at wiggling my ears. I no longer needed to look in the mirror to get it right. In fact I got so good I could wiggle each ear by itself, kind of like left and right turn signals on a car. I can wiggle the left ear or the right ear or both at the same time. I remember showing off to my friends. Nobody else in could do it.

I can still do it today. It is like learning to ride a bike. Once you learn how, the basic skill stays with you the rest of your life.

Okay you may be wondering what this has to do with a woman’s orgasm. Well quite a lot actually. You see learning to climax and enjoy easy orgasms is a lot like learning to wiggle your ears; at least it was for me. And from the research I’ve done it applies to all women. Let me explain.

After years of frustration and difficulty achieving orgasm, especially during sex with my husband, I decided I would do something about it. I knew how to climax, I had been doing it by myself since I was a teenager, but sometimes it would take forever to happen.

I decided this was not right or fair for that matter and I opened my mind to the possibility that a woman’s orgasms should be easy and frequent. I got tired of reading articles about other women who enjoyed multiple orgasms on a regular basis. I decided I was going to be one of those women.

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As I researched how to become more orgasmic I learned the importance of training my orgasm muscle or pubococcygeal muscle AKA the PC muscle. I learned that most women (over 90% in one study) did not know how to contract and control this muscle that is so critical for female orgasm.

Studies showed that most women when asked to squeeze their PC muscle mistakenly tighten their buttocks, thighs, legs, and abdominal muscles instead. Studies also showed the best way for a woman to learn to get in tune with her orgasm muscle and learn to flex it was through some kind of biofeedback.

What this means is she needs to see what she is doing so she can learn when she is doing it correctly. Then she can focus on that and improve her skill and control of the muscle.

This is when I had an “Ah ha!” moment and remembered how I had learned to wiggle my ears as a kid. I had used biofeedback when looking into the mirror to figure out how to move the muscles to wiggle my ears! And how not to move the other muscles in my face.

I was one of those women who would have to tighten my legs stiff as a board while working my way to an orgasm. Sometimes I would get a cramp in my leg. And the following day the muscles in my butt and the back of my legs would be stiff and sore.

In this on my back and stiff legged position you can forget trying to orgasm during intercourse. There was no way I could enjoy my husband and climax in this position.

I needed to be in this stiff legged position because that is how I first learned to reach orgasm when I was a teenager. That was the only way I knew how to get the muscle tension I needed to climax.

It wasn’t until I learned to consciously control my orgasm muscle using a pelvic muscle exerciser that gave me not only the resistance necessary to strengthen the pelvic muscles but also provided the biofeedback I needed did I learn how to climax in almost any position, orgasm during intercourse and do it multiple times.

Just like learning to wiggle my ears using biofeedback, regular practice with my pelvic muscle exerciser has made climaxing easier and multiple orgasms routine. Now I am one of those multi-orgasmic women I used to envy.

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Ladies: Discover Your G-spot and Awaken New and Exciting Sensations

While the medical and sexual health establishment expert’s debate whether or not the G-spot is real and if every woman has one, you can do a little exploring for yourself.

It really doesn’t matter if every woman has a G-spot; the important thing is to find out if you do. Many women don’t realize they have one until they or their lover goes looking for it. Then once you find it and “wake it up” sex is never the same, it gets better!

You don’t need to buy any special toys or tools to use to find your G-spot. All you need is a stainless steel spoon. Whether you choose a teaspoon or tablespoon is up to you, use what ever you are comfortable with. Just make sure the edges of the spoon are smooth and don’t have any nicks or sharp edges. The spoon handle makes it easy to maneuver the spoon body and press it into the vaginal wall and wake up or stimulate the G-spot.


First warm the spoon in your hand and then make sure you are well lubricated or use additional lubrication if needed. Vitamin E works well for this. Lay down on the bed or floor and place a pillow underneath your hips. This creates the perfect angle for G-spot stimulation. You may want to cover the pillow with a towel as you may produce large amounts of fluid when you successfully find and awaken your G-spot. Fluid release is completely natural so don’t worry about it when you do.

If you don’t produce any noticeable fluid, that is okay too. But you will likely find this to change over time as you continue to practice stimulating your G-spot.

Open your legs very wide and draw your knees up to your chest. Insert the spoon into your vagina between 1 to 2 inches making sure the smooth curved side of the spoon body is facing upwards. Use the handle to press the spoon upwards into your vagina against your G-spot or any area that feels good. Keep doing this until you begin to feel “pressure” building up. Vary the amount of pressure you apply and tap the spoon quickly and vigorously. Studies have found the G-spot responds best to tapping stimulation.

You may find you can use vigorous tapping to give yourself a vaginal orgasm. To increase pleasure gyrate your hips. Slow down if you want to prolong the feeling. You can also build up and slow down repeatedly and build yourself up to an intense climax. Add clitoral stimulation as needed or desired.

If you feel pressure building and have the urge to “let go”, do it. The feeling is absolutely wonderful. It is unlike any orgasm you may have had before. Some women think this pressure is the need to urinate and they hold it in when it is really fluid built up in the female prostate from stimulating the G-spot. Don’t make that mistake. Let it go. You will be glad you did!

At first the sensations you get from stimulating your G-spot may be mild. But keep practicing and soon you will be having mind blowing orgasms. Sometimes it will take just a few minutes and at other times it will require sessions of a half our or more.
Once you have awakened your G-spot, you may find yourself building up fluid during sex with your partner. Especially, when using positions that hit the G-spot just right. When this happens don’t hold it in. Let it go! Men get incredibly excited when a woman ejaculates during sex.

Many women begin having ejaculating orgasms later in life. Years of stimulation from sex seems to awaken the g-spot. But you don’t have to wait for it to just happen. Find a spoon, awaken your G-spot and vagina and start enjoy new levels of pleasure now.

You and your partner will be glad you did.


Sometimes stimulating the G-spot isn’t enough.
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My “Marvelous Toy” Hacks for the Hitachi Magic Wand - Make the Best Even Better!

There are a lot of fancy and expensive vibrators/sex toys available for women but a girl can’t get anything as simple to use and more reliable than the Hitachi Magic Wand.

The Hitachi Magic Wand has several things going for it:

First, it doesn’t look like a sex toy! It just looks like a massager, and it is probably the best sex toy ever made at such an affordable price.

Second, it is simple to operate with two speeds to choose from: Low or High and its length and design make it easy to put it where you need it.

Third it is effective. It gives really good vibrations with out a lot of noise and since it is corded it never runs out of power.

Fourth, it is well made and reliable. I have used mine regularly for nearly two decades. The only thing we have had to replace is the cord, more on that in a minute.

Fifth, it can also be uses as a massager. In case you need to work out the kinks in your neck or back muscles before or after you get kinky.

Now onto ways to “Hack” your Hitachi Magic Wand.

The Hitachi Magic Wand comes with a standard 6 foot electric cord. With regular use the cord gets weakened where it enters the handle and will short out and cause it to stop working.

I learned this the hard way. Let me tell you how very frustrating it is to be right on the edge of a massive clitoral orgasm, to have the tension built up and know with just a few more seconds of vibration you are going to experience an incredible toe curling, scream into the pillow so you don’t wake the kids climax; and when you are almost there…oh yes, yes, Ye.. (“Snap”, “pop” and then silence), oh no, NOOOooo……and your vibrator shorts out and quits working. Very, very frustration let me tell you. I laugh about it now.

This happened a couple of times over the years with my hubby having to replace the power cord. Then he came up with the perfect solution: he replaced the 6 foot cord with the 25 ft long cord from an old vacuum cleaner. Not only is the cord sturdier and not prone to weakening at the handle and shorting out, it doesn’t easily tangle. Plus the added length makes it easy to take the vibrator along when you have sex in different locations in your bedroom without having to worry about finding an outlet nearby. The same goes for when you travel and stay in a hotel. The extra long cord is very convenient.

My first Hitachi Magic Wand Hack is to replace the standard issue cord with a long vacuum cleaner cord.

The second Hack has to do with the speed and intensity of the vibrations. Since the vibrator only has two speeds some women may find it both too fast and too powerful for their needs. I have found a corded plug-in lamp dimmer slide switch can be used to adjust the speed. The disadvantage to this is the cord on the dimmer switch is 6 foot long, so its functionality may be limited by the length of the cord.



Another way to vary the intensity of the vibration is to put a clean sock over the vibrating head of the Hitachi Magic Wand. This is a lot more convenient than using the dimmer switch. Plus you don’t risk damaging your marvelous toy by using the dimmer switch to vary the power. My hubby says it won’t cause any damage, but the manufacturer may disagree. Besides the sock method is a lot cheaper and you aren’t limited by the power cord’s length.

Here is a video demonstrating the sock method. Be advised it is adult in nature and rather humorous too at the end:

Sock it to Me video

You can also use a towel to dampen the vibrations or buy special covering for the head, but the clean sock is works just as well and is a whole lot cheaper and you just toss it in the laundry when you are done. I keep a stash of clean socks in the drawer next to the bed just for this purpose.

I should mention that any modifications (such as replacing the cord) done to your Hitachi Magic Wand will void its warranty. But my hubby says they are well made and anyone that is handy with a soldering iron and knows basic wiring can replace the cord without any problems. I suspect than many owners that think their marvelous toys has burned out after a few years probably just need to replace the cord. Besides if your Hitachi Magic Wand is more than a couple of years old it is out of the warranty period anyway.

The final Hack is useful for many items not just the Hitachi Magic wand. You’ll need a bedside organizer or caddy and a small electric heat pad. Carefully fold the heat pad and tuck it into the large compartment of the bedside caddy. Then place the Hitachi Magic Wand inside the folded heat pad. Set the heat pad to the lowest setting an hour or so before you’ll be using your “marvelous toy” to make it nice and warm for when you cozy it up to your tender parts. Make sure it is not too warm.

Build Your Own Bedside Warming Caddy

The other pockets are great for storing your personal lubes or other sex accessories. You can also put your lube in with the heat pad to warm it up too. Do loosen the cap and keep it upright so it won’t swell or leak as it expands from being warmed and test the temperature of the lube on your wrist before using to make sure it is not too hot.

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A Woman on Fire

I think this song describes me. I love the lyrics, exept for the cigarette reference, however I must admit the imagery is hard to replace.

Woman on Fire
by Nena

There's a fire when I taste
The heat upon your lips
A shock like a warning sign
Runs through your fingertips
I'm breathing deep in danger
You're searing through my skin
And I can feel your bodyheat, bodyheat
Burnin' within

Where there's danger and desire
There's a woman on fire
And the woman on fire is me
I'm a woman on fire
Woman on fire
I'm a woman on fire for you

Like the tail of a meteor
Glowing in the dark
I smoke you like a cigarette
Hang on to every spark
The rhythm and the danger
Pulse beneath my skin
And I can feel your heartbeat, heartbeat
Poundin' within

I'm a woman on fire, for you

I need the danger
I feel desire
(Bodyheat, bodyheat)
I wanna taste the heat
I wanna taste it
The heat upon your lips
Running through my fingertips
I smoke you like a cigarette
I wanna feel your heartbeat, heartbeat
I wanna feel your bodyheat, bodyheat