Sunday, January 18, 2009

How to Have an Instant Orgasm

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Saturday, January 17, 2009

Thousand Year Old Sex Trick: the Secret to Female Orgasm and Marital Bliss


Here is an interesting article about a sex technique I have become very fond of, infact my nick name gopala girl comes from this.

Enjoy, Sheela a Gopala girl;)


By David Christian Solomon

Learn this hot sex trick that's thousands of years old for better sex and better health.

You constantly see headlines on magazine racks touting some new sex trick. There are no new sex tricks. Just old ones that have been rediscovered and renamed. One of the best "sex tricks" for women of any age is the vaginal squeeze.

It has many different names in different cultures and countries. In India it is called the pompoir. The Toaist call it "Holding Firm". The Arabic word for it is the Kabbazah (to clasp). In the Far East it is known as the Singapore Kiss.

They all refer to a woman developing strength and control of her vaginal muscles. Having strong vaginal and pelvic floor muscles has many benefits. Regular exercise (daily) of the PC muscle and surrounding pelvic muscles increases blood flow and nerve connections. This leads to not only improved sexual health it also expands the level of sexual enjoyment for both the woman and her male partner.

Regular vaginal training increases a woman's orgasm frequency, intensity and variety. For most women orgasm is centered in the clitoris. But with proper exercise not only does her clitoral orgasm improve; she develops the ability to experience vaginal orgasms and ejaculating orgasms.

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Women who consistently exercise and practice expand not only their own orgasmic abilities; they can also greatly increase the pleasure of their male partner. Strength and control of the vaginal muscles allow her to squeeze and hold an inserted penis of any size. For women with strong and healthy vaginal muscles, male penis size really doesn't matter.

Some may think that exercising the vaginal muscles are only for women who have given birth or have incontinence concerns. This is not true at all. In many cultures developing vaginal strength and control is important pre-wife training: 'She must close and constrict the vagina until it holds the penis...to act as the hand of the Gopala girl who milks the cow. If she does this, her husband will value her above all women, nor would he exchange her for the most beautiful queen in the Three Worlds.'

In cultures where vaginal training is encouraged the women learn to firmly grip the penis in their vagina then contract the muscles to provide a milking sensation. Men, who are fortunate enough to have such a woman, say the sensation of penile milking with a strong vagina is the ultimate sexual experience-and they prefer it over oral stimulation.

In addition to improving clitoral orgasm experiences, pelvic exercise increases the likelihood for vaginal, multiple and whole-body orgasms. This includes female ejaculation or "squirting" orgasms. It is also believed to help PMS, irregular menstruation, ovarian cysts, fibroids, incontinence, increase fertility, and more.

No matter what your age or circumstance, newly married or soon to be, a new mother or empty nester, in your fertile years or into menopause; every woman can benefit by starting a pelvic fitness program today.

About the Author
Learn about the Kabbazah and The Velvet Grip Technique.

David Solomon is the author of the Easy Orgasm Diet.

Friday, January 9, 2009

Ladies: Discover Your G-spot and Awaken New and Exciting Sensations

While the medical and sexual health establishment expert’s debate whether or not the G-spot is real and if every woman has one, you can do a little exploring for yourself.

It really doesn’t matter if every woman has a G-spot; the important thing is to find out if you do. Many women don’t realize they have one until they or their lover goes looking for it. Then once you find it and “wake it up” sex is never the same, it gets better!

You don’t need to buy any special toys or tools to use to find your G-spot. All you need is a stainless steel spoon. Whether you choose a teaspoon or tablespoon is up to you, use what ever you are comfortable with. Just make sure the edges of the spoon are smooth and don’t have any nicks or sharp edges. The spoon handle makes it easy to maneuver the spoon body and press it into the vaginal wall and wake up or stimulate the G-spot.


First warm the spoon in your hand and then make sure you are well lubricated or use additional lubrication if needed. Vitamin E works well for this. Lay down on the bed or floor and place a pillow underneath your hips. This creates the perfect angle for G-spot stimulation. You may want to cover the pillow with a towel as you may produce large amounts of fluid when you successfully find and awaken your G-spot. Fluid release is completely natural so don’t worry about it when you do.

If you don’t produce any noticeable fluid, that is okay too. But you will likely find this to change over time as you continue to practice stimulating your G-spot.

Open your legs very wide and draw your knees up to your chest. Insert the spoon into your vagina between 1 to 2 inches making sure the smooth curved side of the spoon body is facing upwards. Use the handle to press the spoon upwards into your vagina against your G-spot or any area that feels good. Keep doing this until you begin to feel “pressure” building up. Vary the amount of pressure you apply and tap the spoon quickly and vigorously. Studies have found the G-spot responds best to tapping stimulation.

You may find you can use vigorous tapping to give yourself a vaginal orgasm. To increase pleasure gyrate your hips. Slow down if you want to prolong the feeling. You can also build up and slow down repeatedly and build yourself up to an intense climax. Add clitoral stimulation as needed or desired.

If you feel pressure building and have the urge to “let go”, do it. The feeling is absolutely wonderful. It is unlike any orgasm you may have had before. Some women think this pressure is the need to urinate and they hold it in when it is really fluid built up in the female prostate from stimulating the G-spot. Don’t make that mistake. Let it go. You will be glad you did!

At first the sensations you get from stimulating your G-spot may be mild. But keep practicing and soon you will be having mind blowing orgasms. Sometimes it will take just a few minutes and at other times it will require sessions of a half our or more.
Once you have awakened your G-spot, you may find yourself building up fluid during sex with your partner. Especially, when using positions that hit the G-spot just right. When this happens don’t hold it in. Let it go! Men get incredibly excited when a woman ejaculates during sex.

Many women begin having ejaculating orgasms later in life. Years of stimulation from sex seems to awaken the g-spot. But you don’t have to wait for it to just happen. Find a spoon, awaken your G-spot and vagina and start enjoy new levels of pleasure now.

You and your partner will be glad you did.


Sometimes stimulating the G-spot isn’t enough.
Strengthening the pelvic muscles
is proven to make women respond to G-spot stimulation and increase orgasm intensity.

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My Favorite G-spot Spoon



A spoon makes a great G-spot stimulator.

Here is a picture of my favorite spoon.

It was my hubby's favorite ice cream spoon.

Now it is my favorite "I scream spoon".

Here is the article I wrote detailing how to use it:

Ladies: Discover Your G-spot and Awaken New and Exciting Sensations


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Monday, January 5, 2009

Orgasmic Exercise - Get Fit for Orgasm



The first Monday in January is the busiest day of the year for gyms.

Studies show that New Year’s resolutions to begin exercising last about 2 weeks. People that join a gym go for the first couple of weeks then around the 15th of January attendance at gyms begins to drop off.

Maybe knowing those women who exercise have twice as many orgasms at those who don’t will help keep you motivated.

More than 80% of women who use a pelvic exerciser notice improvements in their sexual experience and orgasms within 4 weeks.

And the longer they keep at it the better it gets.

Effective pelvic exercises only take minutes a day with a pelvic exerciser.

You don’t have to join a gym and pelvic exercises are fun. Some women climax during their exercise sessions.

Make a New Year’s resolution you will actually keep. Start a vaginal fitness program this year.

I recommend the ezCOME. A simple way to exercise in the only way proven to quickly improve your pelvic muscle strength and sexual awareness. Learn to identify and control the correct muscles then squeeze against the resistance.

Read this article about the fantastic benefits properly trained pelvic floor muscles can give you: Fit for Orgasm

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Tuesday, December 30, 2008

My “Marvelous Toy” Hacks for the Hitachi Magic Wand - Make the Best Even Better!


There are a lot of fancy and expensive vibrators/sex toys available for women but a girl can’t get anything as simple to use and more reliable than the Hitachi Magic Wand.

The Hitachi Magic Wand has several things going for it:

First, it doesn’t look like a sex toy! It just looks like a massager, and it is probably the best sex toy ever made at such an affordable price.

Second, it is simple to operate with two speeds to choose from: Low or High and its length and design make it easy to put it where you need it.

Third it is effective. It gives really good vibrations with out a lot of noise and since it is corded it never runs out of power.

Fourth, it is well made and reliable. I have used mine regularly for nearly two decades. The only thing we have had to replace is the cord, more on that in a minute.

Fifth, it can also be uses as a massager. In case you need to work out the kinks in your neck or back muscles before or after you get kinky.

Now onto ways to “Hack” your Hitachi Magic Wand.

The Hitachi Magic Wand comes with a standard 6 foot electric cord. With regular use the cord gets weakened where it enters the handle and will short out and cause it to stop working.

I learned this the hard way. Let me tell you how very frustrating it is to be right on the edge of a massive clitoral orgasm, to have the tension built up and know with just a few more seconds of vibration you are going to experience an incredible toe curling, scream into the pillow so you don’t wake the kids climax; and when you are almost there…oh yes, yes, Ye.. (“Snap”, “pop” and then silence), oh no, NOOOooo……and your vibrator shorts out and quits working. Very, very frustration let me tell you. I laugh about it now.

This happened a couple of times over the years with my hubby having to replace the power cord. Then he came up with the perfect solution: he replaced the 6 foot cord with the 25 ft long cord from an old vacuum cleaner. Not only is the cord sturdier and not prone to weakening at the handle and shorting out, it doesn’t easily tangle. Plus the added length makes it easy to take the vibrator along when you have sex in different locations in your bedroom without having to worry about finding an outlet nearby. The same goes for when you travel and stay in a hotel. The extra long cord is very convenient.

My first Hitachi Magic Wand Hack is to replace the standard issue cord with a long vacuum cleaner cord.

The second Hack has to do with the speed and intensity of the vibrations. Since the vibrator only has two speeds some women may find it both too fast and too powerful for their needs. I have found a corded plug-in lamp dimmer slide switch can be used to adjust the speed. The disadvantage to this is the cord on the dimmer switch is 6 foot long, so its functionality may be limited by the length of the cord.



Another way to vary the intensity of the vibration is to put a clean sock over the vibrating head of the Hitachi Magic Wand. This is a lot more convenient than using the dimmer switch. Plus you don’t risk damaging your marvelous toy by using the dimmer switch to vary the power. My hubby says it won’t cause any damage, but the manufacturer may disagree. Besides the sock method is a lot cheaper and you aren’t limited by the power cord’s length.

Here is a video demonstrating the sock method. Be advised it is adult in nature and rather humorous too at the end:

Sock it to Me video

You can also use a towel to dampen the vibrations or buy special covering for the head, but the clean sock is works just as well and is a whole lot cheaper and you just toss it in the laundry when you are done. I keep a stash of clean socks in the drawer next to the bed just for this purpose.


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I should mention that any modifications (such as replacing the cord) done to your Hitachi Magic Wand will void its warranty. But my hubby says they are well made and anyone that is handy with a soldering iron and knows basic wiring can replace the cord without any problems. I suspect than many owners that think their marvelous toys has burned out after a few years probably just need to replace the cord. Besides if your Hitachi Magic Wand is more than a couple of years old it is out of the warranty period anyway.

The final Hack is useful for many items not just the Hitachi Magic wand. You’ll need a bedside organizer or caddy and a small electric heat pad. Carefully fold the heat pad and tuck it into the large compartment of the bedside caddy. Then place the Hitachi Magic Wand inside the folded heat pad. Set the heat pad to the lowest setting an hour or so before you’ll be using your “marvelous toy” to make it nice and warm for when you cozy it up to your tender parts. Make sure it is not too warm.

Build Your Own Bedside Warming Caddy

The other pockets are great for storing your personal lubes or other sex accessories. You can also put your lube in with the heat pad to warm it up too. Do loosen the cap and keep it upright so it won’t swell or leak as it expands from being warmed and test the temperature of the lube on your wrist before using to make sure it is not too hot.

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Monday, December 29, 2008

My Marvelous Toy - the Hitachi Magic Wand



Over the holidays my son fell in love with the song “The Marvelous Toy” and has been singing it everyday. It got me thinking about my own "marvelous toy" my husband bought me after we married.

Growing up I was a little insecure about my sexuality. I guess every teenage girl is to some degree. I was fortunate in that I grew up in a religious home where sex was regarded as something sacred and something special and ment to be enjoyed by a husband and wife and not something that was dirty or to be ashamed of.

So when I discovered the joys of masturbation as a teenager I tried to keep it to a minimum, realizing it was important to know how my body worked so I could share it with my husband after I got married.

My hubby tells me he was glad I had gotten familiar with my body and knew how to orgasm when we got married and was greatful I was a virgin (we both were) and not a prude.

Even with this mindset I was still a little shy about sex after we got married. So I was thrilled when my husband bought me "my marvelous toy". You see even though I enjoyed sex and knew how to climax; it took a lot of work (back then). So to make it easier for me to climax he bought me a Hitachi Magic Wand electric vibrator. He even left me a little note encouraging me to test drive it in private so I could get comfortable using it to achieve orgasm by myself and so I could share that knowledge with him later.

The Hitachi Magic Wand is probably the best appliances we have ever purchased and is still going strong after nearly 2 decades of regular use. In fact we often give a Hitachi Magic Wand as a wedding present to young couples.

So if you don’t own a Hitachi Magic Wand now I strongly recommend you get one---the sooner the better!

Just a little note to you men, don’t feel threatened by a vibrator. The more orgasms a woman has the more she wants. Using a vibrator makes orgasm happen quicker and with less work. Don’t worry she won’t replace having sex with you for having sex with herself and the Hitachi Magic Wand. She will still want your "Magic Wand" and more often too.

And just think how much you’ll enjoy fondling her and watching her get off, ooh la la!

Another thing about having a Hitachi Magic Wand is if you forget to put it away and the kids or in-laws find it you wont be embarrassed because after all it is just a massager for sore muscles right (wink, wink).

Next time I will share some ways to Hack your Hitachi Magic Wand and make it an even more marvelous toy.

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