9 Naughty sex tips I learned from a porn star

Anyone can give advice. And when the advice comes from someone with experience you want to pay attention.

Adult actress Ryan Keely, listed nine of her sex tips in Penthouse® magazine. Normally I don’t pay much attention to porn stars, as I find much of what they say about sex is just a bunch of over hyped nonsense and just a means of selling their product and with little value.

However, as I read Miss Keely’s sex tips I found myself relating with she was say and for the most part in agreement. She has some really good sex tips. Keep in mind she openly admits she doesn’t make love but rather; has sex. If you are a man reading this and you are with a woman who is more into romance and not so much the bad-girl type, take it slow and gauge her reactions. You want to come across as naughty; not nasty.

For the ladies reading this, it is okay to break out of your nice-girl mode. Especially behind closed doors with the one you love. It took me awhile to get in touch with my inner bad-girl and I am glad I did. Also, being a bad-girl in private does not make you a sl*t or anything like that. It just makes you a passionate lover and makes your hubby think about you more, a lot more. Trust me on this.

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If you feel awkward being naughty, time your adventure into naughtiness around your monthly cycle when you feel the most horny. Now to the porn star’s sex tips:

1. Ryan recommends having snacks on hand for the after sex “munchies”. I have to admit after a nice orgasm (or two or three or more if you are like me and have developed your orgasmic ability) I feel “starving”. My favorite after sex and orgasm snacks is fresh strawberries with whipped cream. These are not always on hand, so for me cheese and crackers work. She recommends keeping an after sex sandwich on hand and have to I agree, having something available to eat after sex is a great idea.
2. Men it is bad manners to come and be done. Ryan says when a woman is with a man she expects him to help her get off. I agree with her on this. During my self cultivation sessions I am totally responsible for my own orgasms, but when I am with my hubby I expect him to help me climax. This doesn’t mean a man has to be some kind super stud. He should enjoy his orgasm, and not hold back and not feel guilty. He should just realize it ain’t over until his lady sings (screams, moans or shouts) in orgasmic bliss. “You are not done until I come too (or three or four….)” says Ryan. I agree.
3. She advises men not to try every single foreplay move they have ever heard of on a woman they are with. Foreplay is important, but not 20 minutes important. When a woman wants sex, 5 minutes or so of foreplay is usually enough to get her juices flowing if it is done right. The important thing is to make sure she is wet and wanting. If need be, use some lubrication before thrusting into her. There have been many times when I was ready and wanting, but I wasn’t very wet. Contrary to what you may have read in erotic books and magazines, how wet a woman is, is not always an indication of how turned on she is. Men don’t be afraid to use lubrication. Ryan also recommends that men at least some of the time have the woman come first. She also advises men to remember oral sex is sex, and not foreplay. Here again I have to agree with her. Get me turned on first, and then you can add oral sex to the mix.

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4. She says men should not keep asking permission during sex. Of course sex has to be consensual, and don’t try anything you know the woman finds objective. But once things get going, stop asking. Just do it. A woman will let you know if they don’t like what you are trying. If it is something you haven’t tried before and she doesn’t object, chances are she will like it or at least appreciate the initiative.
5. Don’t try too many positions during one session of sex. Orgasmic tensions needs time to build. Constantly changing positions makes it difficult to relax and enjoy the moment and build up towards climax. It is better to spread your experimenting with new positions over several sex sessions.
6. Don’t be passive. Be a man. This does not mean a man should be a brute. But he should not make a woman feel she is forcing herself on him. She recommends men be active participants in the fun and games.
7. Part of being an active participant is making some noise, advises Ryan. Tell the woman how it feels, “even if all you can get out is grunts and expletives.” She says, “It is the least you can do.” She is quite vocal during sex and appreciates it when a man lets her know with a few dirty comments and some moans he is enjoying the sex too. I agree with her on this. I don’t particularly like a lot of expletives, but a little dirty talk at the right time fuels my inner bad girl. Men are too quiet during sex.
8. Don’t get all weird about bodily fluids. Ryan points out sex is messy, especially good sex. She advises men learn to love it because good sex is worth it. I say this goes for the ladies too. I think a lot more women would ejaculate during sex if they weren’t so concerned about making a mess and just let go.
9. Do spooning after sex. Ryan says, “Life will be easier and your sex life will be better if you’re the little spoon from time to time”. She has got that right. I like most women like to cuddle, especially after sex.

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And remember the after sex snack. I forgot to mention I also like chocolate after sex, Dove ® Dark is my favorite, and I believe it increases my desire for more sex.

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Great sex is priceless. The moments of intimacy, pleasure and gratification of sex are one of life’s treasures. However a woman does not need to spend thousands dollars for an injection of collagen into her g-spot to increase her enjoyment. She can amplify her g-spot and enhance her orgasm and sexual gratification naturally for just pennies and a little intentional effort.

In G-spot Orgasm Amplification Secrets Part 1 we looked at Cara’s situation.

Now let’s look at Kristy’s. As you will recall Kristy is an unmarried 29 year old career woman who has no children.

Just like I did with Cara I will read between the lines and fill in some details about Kristy. Keep in mind these “details” are the creation of my own imagination as I do not personally know Kristy and I do not know what her actual situation is, but I am going to make some assumptions based on my own experience, observations and insights. So here we go:

Like Cara, Kristy is comfortable with her sexuality. She is goal driven and enjoys the satisfaction of achieving her goals and desires. During “self cultivation” (masturbation) and partner sex she is having trouble achieving orgasm. This not only frustrates her, it is also having a negative impact on her relationships. She often feels disappointed after sex. Her boyfriend is exhausted and satisfied while she remains aroused and yearning for the release of orgasm.


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It doesn’t seem to matter what her partner does to get her excited, nothing works to make her orgasm. She is concerned that her sexual frustration and disappointment in bed is having a negative affect on her relationship. She finds herself getting irritated when her boyfriend wants to get close to her. She knows he wants to be intimate, but what good is it going to do for her? Her difficulty with having an orgasm gives her feelings of frustration and resentment.

She is hoping the G-Shot™ will solve her difficulty with having orgasm problem and help her achieve her goal of being an orgasmic woman and let her enjoy to same level of satisfaction from sex as her boyfriend does. For awhile she thought it might be the fault of her partner’s technique and stamina, but as her sexual experience increased over the years and with different partners she has come to the conclusion her difficulty with orgasm lies within her. Being a take charge kind of woman she has decided the G-Shot™ injection is what she needs.

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Here is why I think Kristy’s orgasm difficulties have little to do with her G-spot and why I think the G-Shot™ won’t give her the benefits she is hoping for. (Please note, the news story did not report on Kristy’s experience after receiving the G-Shot™, unlike Cara where they included information about her after G-Shot ™ sex life.)
1. Kristy is a career woman; she is in control of her life. I will bet she began taking the birth control pill when she was in college. She is responsible and would not leave contraception up to someone else. This began the death of her libido and the demise of her orgasmic ability. (You can read more about the Negative Affects of the Pill on a Woman's Libido HERE.)

2. Because Kristy is driven, I am going to assume a daily doses of caffeine, in the form of gourmet coffee (i.e. Starbucks ™) is part of her daily ritual to get her going in the morning and to keep her moving in the afternoon. These routnine daily doses of caffeine can have negative affects on important brain chemicals which further blocks her ability to have and enjoy orgasms.

3. Judging from the images in the TV news report, I believe Kristy is careful about what she eats, but her fast paced career driven life means she probably eats more packaged and fast food than she should and she keeps her figure by limiting her consumption. This type of diet further diminishes the brain chemicals she needs to fully enjoy her sexuality.

4. Kristy is 29 years old, and although she has not given birth and experienced the drastic changes to her pelvic floor muscles that are associated with childbirth, she is still subject to the natural muscle weakening that comes with age. While she is still young and vibrant, natural muscle tone begins to diminish after the age of 21. This loss of pelvic muscle tone adds to her weakened ability to respond sexually and enjoy strong and intense orgasms.

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5. Because Kristy is a sexually confident woman, she most likely owns a personal vibrator, and because she is smart it is most likely a Hitachi Magic Wand , for use during her “self cultivation” sessions. Unfortunately the use of the vibrator may be making her difficulty with orgasm worse.

As orgasm has been more and more difficult to achieve she has gone from using her vibrator on low to needing it to use it on the highest setting and even this is often not powerful enough. She finds that she has to stop during her “self cultivation” sessions because she has gone numb from the length and power of the vibration stimulation.

Even after resting for a minute and resuming stimulation she still finds orgasm difficult and sometimes is left numb, frustrated and orgasmless. The intense vibrations and her need for prolong use in order to climax has most likely desensitized her clitoris, thus making orgasm that much harder.

6. I also bet that Kristy, being the well read woman that she is, has tried kegel exercises as recommended by many books and magazine articles, only to be disappointed by the lack of results.

7. Because she believes she has tried everything possible she looks to the G-Shot™ to be her orgasmic salvation. (I wish the news story would have shared her experience with the G-Shot™, good or bad. I am betting it wasn’t as she expected and that is why they did not mention it.)

I have outlined the hypothetical reasons why Kristy is having so much trouble having orgasms. In a later blog I will make some recommendations on how she can correct her orgasm problems without spending $1,500. Come again soon…

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