Tuesday, December 30, 2008

My “Marvelous Toy” Hacks for the Hitachi Magic Wand - Make the Best Even Better!


There are a lot of fancy and expensive vibrators/sex toys available for women but a girl can’t get anything as simple to use and more reliable than the Hitachi Magic Wand.

The Hitachi Magic Wand has several things going for it:

First, it doesn’t look like a sex toy! It just looks like a massager, and it is probably the best sex toy ever made at such an affordable price.

Second, it is simple to operate with two speeds to choose from: Low or High and its length and design make it easy to put it where you need it.

Third it is effective. It gives really good vibrations with out a lot of noise and since it is corded it never runs out of power.

Fourth, it is well made and reliable. I have used mine regularly for nearly two decades. The only thing we have had to replace is the cord, more on that in a minute.

Fifth, it can also be uses as a massager. In case you need to work out the kinks in your neck or back muscles before or after you get kinky.

Now onto ways to “Hack” your Hitachi Magic Wand.

The Hitachi Magic Wand comes with a standard 6 foot electric cord. With regular use the cord gets weakened where it enters the handle and will short out and cause it to stop working.

I learned this the hard way. Let me tell you how very frustrating it is to be right on the edge of a massive clitoral orgasm, to have the tension built up and know with just a few more seconds of vibration you are going to experience an incredible toe curling, scream into the pillow so you don’t wake the kids climax; and when you are almost there…oh yes, yes, Ye.. (“Snap”, “pop” and then silence), oh no, NOOOooo……and your vibrator shorts out and quits working. Very, very frustration let me tell you. I laugh about it now.

This happened a couple of times over the years with my hubby having to replace the power cord. Then he came up with the perfect solution: he replaced the 6 foot cord with the 25 ft long cord from an old vacuum cleaner. Not only is the cord sturdier and not prone to weakening at the handle and shorting out, it doesn’t easily tangle. Plus the added length makes it easy to take the vibrator along when you have sex in different locations in your bedroom without having to worry about finding an outlet nearby. The same goes for when you travel and stay in a hotel. The extra long cord is very convenient.

My first Hitachi Magic Wand Hack is to replace the standard issue cord with a long vacuum cleaner cord.

The second Hack has to do with the speed and intensity of the vibrations. Since the vibrator only has two speeds some women may find it both too fast and too powerful for their needs. I have found a corded plug-in lamp dimmer slide switch can be used to adjust the speed. The disadvantage to this is the cord on the dimmer switch is 6 foot long, so its functionality may be limited by the length of the cord.



Another way to vary the intensity of the vibration is to put a clean sock over the vibrating head of the Hitachi Magic Wand. This is a lot more convenient than using the dimmer switch. Plus you don’t risk damaging your marvelous toy by using the dimmer switch to vary the power. My hubby says it won’t cause any damage, but the manufacturer may disagree. Besides the sock method is a lot cheaper and you aren’t limited by the power cord’s length.

Here is a video demonstrating the sock method. Be advised it is adult in nature and rather humorous too at the end:

Sock it to Me video

You can also use a towel to dampen the vibrations or buy special covering for the head, but the clean sock is works just as well and is a whole lot cheaper and you just toss it in the laundry when you are done. I keep a stash of clean socks in the drawer next to the bed just for this purpose.


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I should mention that any modifications (such as replacing the cord) done to your Hitachi Magic Wand will void its warranty. But my hubby says they are well made and anyone that is handy with a soldering iron and knows basic wiring can replace the cord without any problems. I suspect than many owners that think their marvelous toys has burned out after a few years probably just need to replace the cord. Besides if your Hitachi Magic Wand is more than a couple of years old it is out of the warranty period anyway.

The final Hack is useful for many items not just the Hitachi Magic wand. You’ll need a bedside organizer or caddy and a small electric heat pad. Carefully fold the heat pad and tuck it into the large compartment of the bedside caddy. Then place the Hitachi Magic Wand inside the folded heat pad. Set the heat pad to the lowest setting an hour or so before you’ll be using your “marvelous toy” to make it nice and warm for when you cozy it up to your tender parts. Make sure it is not too warm.

Build Your Own Bedside Warming Caddy

The other pockets are great for storing your personal lubes or other sex accessories. You can also put your lube in with the heat pad to warm it up too. Do loosen the cap and keep it upright so it won’t swell or leak as it expands from being warmed and test the temperature of the lube on your wrist before using to make sure it is not too hot.

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Monday, December 29, 2008

My Marvelous Toy - the Hitachi Magic Wand



Over the holidays my son fell in love with the song “The Marvelous Toy” and has been singing it everyday. It got me thinking about my own "marvelous toy" my husband bought me after we married.

Growing up I was a little insecure about my sexuality. I guess every teenage girl is to some degree. I was fortunate in that I grew up in a religious home where sex was regarded as something sacred and something special and ment to be enjoyed by a husband and wife and not something that was dirty or to be ashamed of.

So when I discovered the joys of masturbation as a teenager I tried to keep it to a minimum, realizing it was important to know how my body worked so I could share it with my husband after I got married.

My hubby tells me he was glad I had gotten familiar with my body and knew how to orgasm when we got married and was greatful I was a virgin (we both were) and not a prude.

Even with this mindset I was still a little shy about sex after we got married. So I was thrilled when my husband bought me "my marvelous toy". You see even though I enjoyed sex and knew how to climax; it took a lot of work (back then). So to make it easier for me to climax he bought me a Hitachi Magic Wand electric vibrator. He even left me a little note encouraging me to test drive it in private so I could get comfortable using it to achieve orgasm by myself and so I could share that knowledge with him later.

The Hitachi Magic Wand is probably the best appliances we have ever purchased and is still going strong after nearly 2 decades of regular use. In fact we often give a Hitachi Magic Wand as a wedding present to young couples.

So if you don’t own a Hitachi Magic Wand now I strongly recommend you get one---the sooner the better!

Just a little note to you men, don’t feel threatened by a vibrator. The more orgasms a woman has the more she wants. Using a vibrator makes orgasm happen quicker and with less work. Don’t worry she won’t replace having sex with you for having sex with herself and the Hitachi Magic Wand. She will still want your "Magic Wand" and more often too.

And just think how much you’ll enjoy fondling her and watching her get off, ooh la la!

Another thing about having a Hitachi Magic Wand is if you forget to put it away and the kids or in-laws find it you wont be embarrassed because after all it is just a massager for sore muscles right (wink, wink).

Next time I will share some ways to Hack your Hitachi Magic Wand and make it an even more marvelous toy.

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Monday, December 22, 2008

What He Really Wants for Christmas but is Afraid to Ask






I finally figured it out, but I couldn’t get myself to admit it. Could it really be that simple?

Every year women struggle to figure out the perfect gift to get their husband or significant other. They think maybe a new tool or some computer gadget or software. They may get him a new shirt or some socks. Maybe a new watch or some cologne they think but are never sure. What about a fancy new electric razor.

Ladies the perfect gift, the gift he will really appreciate, that will fit him perfectly, is the right color, is always appreciated, has the perfect scent, always displays the time beautifully and tells him like nothing else and in no uncertain terms that you love him is your body. It is that simple. Give him your willing body.

If you feel better giving him a new shirt and socks then wrap your naked body in the shirt put on the socks and present them to him saying “Your present is wrapped in this shirt come unwrap it.”

If you want him to have a new watch, put it on and nothing else then present it to him saying “Here is your new time piece. And it needs it buttons pushed to the correct time.”

If you want to get him a tool, get him a tool he can use on you (e.g. vibrator, sex toy, etc) give it to him to open and while he unwraps the “tool” unwrap yourself (undress) lie down on the bed an instruct him to test out his new power tool.

If you decide to get him an electric razor, shave yourself smooth (your pubic area), present your shaved self to him, show him the razor and invite him to see and feel what a smooth shave his new razor gives. You may not want to actually use his new razor to shave yourself smooth. Get a Brazilian wax or use your favorite method to remove your pubic hair. He doesn’t need to know how you did it and probably doesn’t care. But he will be very interested in the smooth shave you are showing him.

This may sound crude to some women. They may think of their man is not all that effected by sex and think of him as above such things. This might be true, but for 95 percent of men, or more, this is what they really want as a gift from their wife or lover. If you ask them they will deny it but inside their head they are agreeing.

Don’t ask a man, just accept is as a fact and use it to build your relationship. If you love him and what to tell him don’t “say it”, DO IT, and then DO IT again and again without asking him, without him asking you. No coupons, no fan fare, no fuss, lingerie is optional, just DO IT willingly.

As a gift, DO IT for a week straight. For Christmas, DO IT for twelve days. For your anniversary DO IT for a month (a true honeymoon-his honey for a whole month). If he asks why you can tell him you have come to understand this is the best way for you to tell him you love him in a way that is meaningful to him and a way that he will understand. He will probably be speechless or he could simply say “Wow you really understand me.”

All he really wants for Christmas or any other special occasion is your body and you. Accept it, remember it, give it. He will love you and appreciate this gift of love more than you could ever understand. Try it.

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Friday, December 19, 2008

Multiple Female Orgasms During Sex - Oh my gosh I thought it was me in the video!


Oh my gosh, I thought this was me when I saw this video!

I would never allow my hubby to make a video like this. He knows if he did he would never see me naked again.

When I saw it, I thought "wow that girl is just like me". I mean seeing the way she gets it on, enjoys herself and climaxes multiple times was like seeing a video of me and my hubby getting in on. After watching it I had to go find him and use him, if you know what I mean.

Just to be clear, I want you to know that IT IS NOT ME in the video.

But the way she enjoys sex and comes over and over is just like me (now that is).

Just so you know the video shows a couple having sex, it is graphic but it is not gross or cheesy. It is homemade but it has good quality video.

The rumor is her boyfriend/husband/lover was so impressed with the difference in their sex after she began using ezCOME that he captured it on video and sent it in. Too bad he didn't have a before and after.

Trust me on this, if a woman uses the ezCOME faithfully sex can be just like what you see in the video for her, Oh Baby!

Thursday, December 18, 2008

11 Secrets About Female Orgasm, Stimulation and Penis Size Men Need to Know

Here are 11 facts all men must know about female orgasms and satisfying a woman sexually:

  1. Women can experience 2 different kinds of orgasms namely clitoral (the most common and the one most women are familiar with) and vaginal (less common but can be learned and enjoyed with a little training).

  2. A few women can’t orgasm at all.

  3. The majority of women can only orgasm from having their clitoris stimulated manually, orally or with a vibrator.

  4. Less than half of all women can have vaginal orgasms. They can learn with training and practice, but most don’t know how.

  5. Since most women must have clitoral stimulation, they don’t climax during intercourse unless additional stimulation is provided to the clitoris.

  6. For more than half of all women, their ability to orgasm has absolutely nothing to do with the size of a man’s penis.

  7. For the women that can have vaginal orgasms, they generally have 2 kinds: the cul-de-sac orgasm or the G-spot orgasm. Most women who can have a cul-de-sac orgasm can also have G-spot orgasms. The cul-de-sac is located deeper inside up behind the cervix. While stimulation of the cul-de-sac can be pleasurable, most women do not like the feel of the cervix being touched with a probing finger or bumped with a long penis. A 5 inch penis is usually long enough to reach the cul-de-sac depending on the woman.

  8. The other vaginal orgasm comes by stimulating the G-spot. It is not really a spot but more of an area located along the front wall of the vagina a couple of inches in. Depending on the woman the G-spot area can be as small as a pea or as large as silver dollar. The G-spot responds to firm pressure and gentle tapping. This can be a drawback because when the G-spot is first stimulated she my feel she has to urinate. Stimulation of the G-spot often causes fluid to build up in the Skene’s glands or female prostrate. Many women are uncomfortable with the sensation of fluid building up and are afraid the fluid they release is urine. Numerous studies have confirmed the fluid or female ejaculate is not urine but is akin to prostrate fluid found in male ejaculate. And like a man’s, her ejaculation fluids can “squirt” out from the urethra during orgasm and is completely normal.

  9. A man does not need a long penis to give a woman who is capable a vaginal orgasm. In most cases a 5 inch long penis is all that is required for a G-spot or cul-de-sac orgasm.

  10. Girth or thickness is NOT a significant factor in satisfying a woman. While some women enjoy the “stretched like a water balloon” feeling, most women do not. To large a girth can cause pain during sex. Men of average or small girth may be concerned if they do not feel the vagina tight around their penis and the vagina feels too loose and does not provide enough stimulation. This situation is much more effectively remedied by the women strengthening her pelvic muscles than by a man trying to add girth which may be possible but the process takes months.

    Whereas a woman can strengthen and tighten her “grip” in just a few weeks. The stronger the pelvic muscles the stronger the orgasms and the tighter the “grip” during sex. The ezCOME (easy Clinical Orgasm Muscle Exerciser) is an excellent way for a woman to strengthen her PC and pelvic muscles. A man would be much better off purchasing an ezCOME for a woman that wasting money on questionable male enhancement products.

    Women with very strong pelvic muscles can easily orgasm vaginally just by flexing their muscles, with or without a penis inside. They can also flex their muscles around an inserted penis and give a man wonderful sensations (Velvet Grip Technique) . The point is a man’s penis size is not as important as a woman’s vaginal strength when it comes to a woman’s orgasm. It is the tapping sensation on the G-spot and/or cul-de-sac that triggers a vaginal orgasm and not the stretching and filling up sensation from a large penis. Hitting the right spot in a tight and toned vagina is more important than size.

  11. In real life, women generally need a minimum of 5 to 10 minutes of direct, consistent and skilled clitoral stimulation to have a clitoral orgasm. In porn the women are shown having multiple vaginal orgasms within moments of penetration. While such orgasmic abilities are possible, such women are rare, and the instant multiple orgasms portrayed in porn are exaggerated and pretended. In the real world women typically react very differently than the stylized porn queens. Also all the men in porn are huge and their size has nothing to do with the fake orgasms of their co stars. Remember they are actors. Men, don’t make the mistake of thinking your size has anything to do with your woman’s orgasms.

Men sometimes find these female orgasm facts hard to believe. Men will get much more out of sex by focusing on their sex skills and her pelvic muscle tone rather than worrying about the size of his penis.


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Is My Vagina the Right Size and Does Size Matter?





Does size really matter?


The Brits studied the vulvas and vaginas of premenopausal women and compared them. You may wonder why I mentioned vaginas and vulvas separately. While most women think of their vaginas and vulvas as a complete package; not so in medical circles. They look at the vagina as more of a penis receptacle and birth canal and the vulva is considered a doorway and pleasure center. If they only knew.


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In this British study at the Elizabeth Garrett Anderson Hospital, in London, they measured everything about the vulva: the size of the clitoris; the size and location of the urethra; the size, color, texture and thickness of the labia; the location in relation to your anus. You get the idea. In another study they took measurements of the vaginas of 39 women.

Here is what they found: “women vary widely in genital dimensions.” Or in other words everybody is different and variety is normal. They did find that genital dimensions tend to mirror body type: the bigger a woman is and the taller she is the more likely she is to have a slightly larger vagina. A bigger role in vaginal size was age and the number of times a woman had given birth. The doctors found the length of the vagina varied between 2 ¾ inches and 5 ¾ inches while the width was between just under 2 inches to 2 ½ inches.

Another factor even more important for vagina size than a woman’s body type, age and number of child births are the strength and size of the vagina muscles or pelvic floor. Women with poor pelvic muscle development have vagina muscles as small as a ½ inch thick, while women with healthy and strong vaginas have muscles 2 inches thick or more.

While a woman can’t change the appearance and location of her vagina she can control the tightness, strength and health of her vagina through proper pelvic exercise. While Kegel exercises are a good place to start, for a woman to properly exercise her vagina muscles and get the maximum benefits (not only a tight vagina but better orgasms too) she needs to use a pelvic exerciser such as the ezCOME.

Women have a great advantage over men in this regard. While it is possible for man to make his penis larger, the process is painful and takes months. For a woman who uses a pelvic exerciser she can tighten herself up in just a few weeks and the process is easy and enjoyable.



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Wednesday, December 17, 2008

A Woman on Fire




I think this song describes me. I love the lyrics, exept for the cigarette reference, however I must admit the imagery is hard to replace.

Woman on Fire
by Nena

There's a fire when I taste
The heat upon your lips
A shock like a warning sign
Runs through your fingertips
I'm breathing deep in danger
You're searing through my skin
And I can feel your bodyheat, bodyheat
Burnin' within

Where there's danger and desire
There's a woman on fire
And the woman on fire is me
I'm a woman on fire
Woman on fire
I'm a woman on fire for you

Like the tail of a meteor
Glowing in the dark
I smoke you like a cigarette
Hang on to every spark
The rhythm and the danger
Pulse beneath my skin
And I can feel your heartbeat, heartbeat
Poundin' within

I'm a woman on fire, for you

I need the danger
I feel desire
(Bodyheat, bodyheat)
I wanna taste the heat
I wanna taste it
The heat upon your lips
Running through my fingertips
I smoke you like a cigarette
I wanna feel your heartbeat, heartbeat
I wanna feel your bodyheat, bodyheat