Men are by their very nature visual creatures and they like variety. A woman should remember this and appreciate the fact that a man has chosen to limit himself to her exclusively (sexually speaking). We as women need to realize this is a big deal for a man to do. We have a tendency to think it is normal and natural for a man to do this when he loves a woman.
This is not true for male nature. It is contrary to their male makeup. Good men do limit themselves, out of love, and practice monogamy. But it is not their natural state. We women need to remember this and appreciate our man’s fidelity.
One of the ways we women can show our appreciation to our man is to be sexually available and to indulge him in his need for variety by being a little sexually adventurous. You know – be a little naughty for him.
Here is sex adventure you can use to show your appreciation to your man. It also let you be a little naughty and feel sexy with out being trashy.
Ever heard of the phrase ‘Amsterdam windows’? This term refers to the red light district in Amsterdam, an area in the city of Holland where prostitution is legal. In the red light district, the women offering their services stand in front of a window displaying themselves to entice men passing by to select them and come in for pleasure.
The shower sex game Amsterdam Windows comes from this and for you to play the game, you’ll need a glass shower stall. (This make a good excuse to get a room a nice hotel.)
The Amsterdam Windows sex adventure game
This sex game is great for your relationship and has different elements in it which appeal to both his needs and your needs. First there’s the play on his need for visual display (on her part), on self-pleasuring (on both your parts) and on role-playing (on her part) so let’s get started!
For this sex game, you can choose to engage in foreplay or not. Opting for foreplay means you can easily be on your way to playing the sex game but opting for the latter has some fun too. How? If you don’t engage in foreplay, then it’s up to you to bring yourself to a level of arousal without him touching you!
Now for the how to of this sex game…
With the bathroom dimly set, you should stand behind the shower stall and turn on the shower. You should have a sexy, white t-shirt on so your man can clearly see how your nipples get turned on and become erect by the blast of water running down your body.
As for your man, he will be sitting and watching on the OTHER side of the glass shower stall. Hello voyeurism!
You should now put on all your feminine charms and get yourself as turned on as much as possible. You can leave your t-shirt on or you can proceed to take an achingly slow shower, making sure he can see the suds slide down your body and how you touch yourself all over. If you own a waterproof vibrator be sure to include it in your sexy show. This part brings out the role-playing in you. You can pretend to be in an adult movie shower scene! If you are like me and feel a little shy or awkward doing this kind of thing, being behind the glass shower door make is easier to relax and let go and use my imagination and let myself feel sexy without feeling so self conscious.
To increase the heat factor, you can then move on to more daring moves such as pushing your body against the glass for his torment and/or… start self-pleasuring yourself using your hands and a waterproof vibrator, if you have one.
Note that on this move, you are fulfilling a sex fantasy that thousands of men dream of everyday… the fantasy of watching his woman play with herself!
At this stage, you may also want to invite your man, with hand gestures, do the same thing---to play with himself ---so you can watch. In doing so you are both fulfilling a sex fantasy that thousands of couples dream up everyday… the fantasy of watching your lover play with him or herself!
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How your sex adventure game of Amsterdam Windows ends is totally up to you. Here are some possible scenarios:
- You can stop when you both reach your climaxes separately (each remaining behind their side of the shower glass.) I have the advantage here because I can have several orgasms.
- You can join each other under the shower and proceed to making love. (A personal favorite of mine! Especially since I have had several vaginal orgasms as this point and am aching to have my man inside me!
- Or you can switch roles! This time, it’s HIS turn to put on a show while you enjoy yourself.
Remember: through the duration of this sex adventure game, there must be NO verbal communication between the two of you whatsoever. With the one sitting down getting turned on simply by what the other chooses to do from his/her side of the ‘window’.
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As if this sex adventure game is not steamy enough, here are other things you can add to change the sex game:
- Make the objective of the game to have as many orgasms as possible while your man watches on the other side of the glass.
- Add music to the equation. You can pre-mix music that alternates between soft and sexy and rough and hard. Use this music to coordinate your sexy movements.
- Add video to the equation. If you know of a really hot shower scene in a movie, get a clip of it and play it. In this scenario the objective is to ‘act out’ the scene completely.
The sex adventure game Amsterdam Windows has a lot going for it. It brings in many sex elements a woman can finally engage in without necessarily being too shy or coy about it. By simply adding the element of the steamy, glass shower door, it’s amazing how a woman can feel so ‘free’ and finally make her man and her own fantasies come to life.
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ReplyDeleteWomen are not naturally monogamous either. That's a big secret behind 70 to 75 % of divorces coming from wives. Michelle Langley has written about this in her excellent book Women's Infidelity, in which she lays bare that women crossing the line into infidelity, often undiscovered by the husband, is a huge factor in those divorces. Langley emphasizes that teaching women the false belief that they are naturally monogamous makes it much harder than it should be for women to cope appropriately with unexpected feelings of desire for men other than their husbands, setting off a downward spiral of marital crisis. See http://womensinfidelity.com/